Seeking Conversation

So I'm bad at friendships. (I know. What am I even doing here?) I suck at responding a lot, but I just moved to this tiny town and away from my family for the first time and just need someone to distract me from all the stress! Flirty is fine as long as you're not pushy lol Snap is: thatbiitch90

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Why bother?

Honestly, I’m starting to wonder why I bother posting things on groups on here asking for advice and support about certain things in groups it’s for when no one answers me. It leaves me feeling deflated, defeated and alone. What is the point.

To add this is not specifically aimed at this group but I know there are a lot of people in this group and wonder if other people feel the same ?

Masturbating at a friends…

I’ve never told anyone this but when I was in college I babysat for a friend of mine. Their baby was already in bed and all I had to do was just chill in the living room and listen in case he woke up. I ended up masturbating while watching TV. I was in a stage of my life where I was exiting a high-demand cult religion and was experimenting sexually…. ANYWAY. After they got home I have never heard from them again. Like ever. Do we think they had a camera and watched it back?? I’m not sure why else they would’ve just never talked to me again 😅😬🫠

At a lost

So I met this guy and we ended up falling pregnant within the first month of our first date. Everything was great though he was supportive, consistent and actually more positive about the unplanned pregnancy then I was. I already have a child with my ex and he already has kids with an ex partner. However he got into an incident during our first date a DUI and told me he would most likely have to spend 6 weeks in jail due to it being his second one (no judgement there) but it’s been three months and I have not heard nothing from him bare in mind this guy was messaging me every morning and calling me every day and now nothing. (He’s phone is off, my cousin even tried to call) Since our relationship was all brand new I don’t even know who to reach out to except his friend who I met once when I first met him. However I only got his friend number from my female friend as he gave it to her. I want to reach out to the friend as I’m due in under three months and just want some answers but don’t know if it would be crossing boundaries. I also don’t know what to say like does he’s friend even know who I am. (Please don’t judge about how quick I ended up getting pregnant the main question is if I reach out to the friend and what would I possibly say)

I don’t feel I want to fuck with my husband

After I got pregnant I only fucked with my husband twice. He didn’t want to have sex with me during pregnancy. After postpartum we have a lot of fights and he said a lot of things to me that I can’t get away from me. I don’t feel confidente of giving him my body due to his criticism all the time. He always needs to complain about something even on sex , it’s always been so annoying but now that my body changed I don’t want any of his criticism, and I think that’s the thing that put me away from him on sex. Also, I feel like I am not his type, I feel he likes other kind of girls. I don’t know what to do anymore.

controlling relationship?

i’ve been told my relationship is controlling but he doesn’t do any of the “standard” things you see online about controlling relationships has anyone else ever been in a relationship like this? 🤷🏽‍♀️
what kind of things does a man do that make a relationship controlling or if it’s something else ..

Please share

After having your baby… is he cheating if he’s not getting at it everyday?