After having your baby… is he cheating if he’s not getting at it everyday?
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7 years no cheating w mine

It has nothing to do with having kids or not. Men who cheat typically have narcissistic tendencies and if they do they are gonna cheat regardless. I will say the ones who do cheat after the baby it’s mostly cuz they feel like you won’t leave them after a baby cuz they think you will stay by them cuz they think you need them. You don’t. They just are too selfish to think otherwise.

If he is, he was probably cheating before then too. Lack of sex doesn't make men cheat, immaturity, disrespect, and lack of value on his current relationship makes them cheat. Poor morals and poor choices, no other excuses. You don't create a family and then abandon it because your needs now come second. Been married to my husband 8 years and together in a healthy committed relationship 11 years - the guy don't have time to cheat, he's too busy adulting, running his business, taking care of his home, his son, his dog, working on his relationship with me, spending time with our families and nurishing our close friendships. His life is too full to add the effort of seeing someone else (exactly what he has said before 😂)