Looking for a friend near or far :)

Hi there! I'm Valeria, I'm 30 and have 2 children. I am engaged to my handsome guy who is in the air force. I am currently working full time but come July will transition to a SAHM. I love books, I'm an amazing texter (so if you're the same that would be perfect lol) I like when the conversation flows naturally. We could talk about anything and everything. I love going on walks on new trails, having coffee dates, spending time together with the kids as well as occasionally without. Having book clubs, doing diamond painting. Honestly I do a bit of everything to pass the time since my fiancee has been deployed since last year 😭 I'm very easy going, not judgemental whatsoever, love doing simple things like picnics, picking books at the library together, talk about conspiracies, you name it. So if I sound like your kinda peep feel free to message me so I know you're interested in getting the conversation going :)

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Mama Friends

Feels like everyone, doesn't answer. Or does once and that's it. I want some genuine conversation and friends to call or text or hangout.

Im thinking of leaving my babies dad but my mum says Im throwing a tantrum

I wanted to leave.
We argue all the time, but after he called me a peasant because he earns double then I do, Iv had it in my head I want to leave.
A bit of back ground. My son is 18months old and we all moved in our first home, and first time living together when he was 4 month old. We have been together 8 years but since the new born bubble popped and we got back to normality we have do nothing but argue. We share the house work but I do more of the parenting because he works 12 hour shifts days and nights but he does help on the weekend unless he is watching football and drink.
He tells me all the time he has nothing for himself and he lives a miserable life but I have nothing for myself my life consist of my son and working full time.
I spoke to my mum after we had a massive argument and I walked out the family home with my son but she just told me I was being silly and having a tantrums and sent me back to my home.
Now I’m doubting myself and struggling with the fact I will be breaking my family up just because I’m not happy!
Do you ladies have any advise for me ?

F*** relationships

Just feel like giving up completely

Pregnancy announcement

I was just wondering if any other august baby mums have not decided to announce on social media, I’m stuck between posting something and not, I enjoy the bubble of just me, my partner & close family knowing but then also don’t want to hide my pregnancy but don’t feel the need to share to everyone on social media as it feels more for celebrities or influencers to make a big post about having baby xx

End of year teacher gift

How much money is a normal amount of money to spend on a end of year teacher gift?

I dont want unhealthy friends

Note this does NOT extend to disabled people or people fighting illness/disease.

I mean I dont want friends that smoke, drink excessively, do drugs, are physically unfit by choice or just generally dont take care of themself.

You are who you surround yourself with and I just dont want that around me.

And if you'll say 'i dont want judgemental friends' thats fine but I do not believe wanting people to be healthy is wrong I see it the same as not wanting my friends to be racist.

Your values matter