VENTING

I just recently had my baby girl December 23rd, 2025, and I wasn’t able to keep her due to financial reasons and wanting the best life for her giving her up for adoption was one of the most hardest decisions ever, and I have no friends during this time of grief. It was an open adoption I can still visit and get pictures of her milestones, but apart of me wish I would’ve kept her. Am I a bad mother because in that moment I thought I was doing what was best for her, but now I feel horrible like I didn’t even try. This has been so hard on me. I ask God for strength everyday, but this is a decision I have to live with for the rest of my life. 🥺

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Pre school booster is it 1 or 2 injections

Just been invited for my sons pre school injections they’ve said it’s 2 injections 1 in each arm is that correct?

How do you still breastfeed baby if she’s on 3 solid meals a day??

My little girl is 6 months tomorrow and we did start her early (no comments on that please because it’s not helpful). She’s doing really well eating her solids and currently has one in the morning and one in the evening but I think she’ll be ready for 3 solids but not sure how to do it so that she is still mostly breastfed? She’s had baby rice this morning with some water and then gone to sleep so I’m feeling quite bad now because I don’t want her to not be mostly breastfed

Nesting Phase 🥰

Hey mamas! 💕
What were the baby items you actually used the MOST? Trying to finish my registry and don't wanna miss the essentials. Thank you! 🤍

Anyone else completely burned out????

I am so close to losing it. My baby is 9 weeks and she is the cutest sweetest baby and I genuinely think I’m very lucky because she’s really not that difficult (and everyone keeps telling me this and I agree) yet I’m still so overwhelmed and burned out. At week 6 she started only wanting contact naps during the day, fine I did this. She doesn’t like to be babyworn I need to hold her and sit. Now at weeks 9 just a regular contact nap is not enough, she only settles when I hold her and jump through hoops, make saltos, bounce, swing, whatever freaking movement exists she wants that otherwise she won’t sleep. My body can’t take this anymore and if I don’t do this she doesn’t sleep and gets all crazy. They said it would het better by week 8 but it’s only getting worse - I feel like such a bad mum because I can’t even deal with one baby. HOW DO YOU MUMS DO THIS WITH MORE KIDS?? I respect you so much!!!! I want 4 kids but I can’t even handle 1. Anyway that’s all for now. And yes she feeds well, is not colic, has not a lot of gas discomfort so that’s all okay, sleeps well at night and my husband is the best and supportive help when he’s home from work. Yet I still can’t manage. Great.

Baby struggling to poop

Hi guys,

(To preface this, we are taking him to the Drs today)
My baby is 2 weeks old and formula fed and for the last week, he has really struggled to poop.
He's passing some really hard paler yellow stools. Once he passes these, he seems to be able to get less formed stools out but it's still more formed than it should be at his age.
He's constantly straining, grunting and trying to go and none of the methods like cycling his legs, etc seem to work.

Have any of you come across this before?
What worked/what was the cause in the end?

From,
A Mam that just wants her baby to poop comfortably 🥺

Health visitor home visit

Just got a letter through saying we have a health visitor home visit around 3/4 weeks before my due date. Didn't have this when I had my son 3.5 years ago? Has anyone else ever had one? What do they generally talk about?
At least it's giving me the kick up the bum to nest and get everything out the loft ready 😂