I wish my husband would stop taking about sex I have no desire. I’m 20 weeks pregnant and sex just isn’t on my mind. I’ve voiced it many times, but I’m at that weird spot where sex is just not interesting or desirable. I know it’s been a month or a little over. But, does anyone else get tired of being bothered by sex. I mean after the baby I won’t probably feel like it neither for a while. But, when it comes back it comes back…. But, the sex thing is beyond me… does anyone else go through the limbo sex drive and husband still so persistent.
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Your husband should be supportive of what you are experiencing in your pregnancy. Also, sex is not owed to husband/wife. If you already voices you not willing to think about it now he should respect that. If he has needs he can masturbate until you feel ready. No one should ever push her/his partner to have sex

Pregnancy can definitely lower your sex drive so I get it, but when I’m not in the mood and I feel like it’s been awhile then I will still take care of him you know what I mean. Intimacy is still important. Personally I wouldn’t be okay with my husband not having sex with me for who knows how long but that’s just me.