Somebody tell me why dads can sleep through the baby crying and don’t even wake up to make sure they’re ok!

I’ll never understand why my husbands phone alarm can wake him up but the baby screaming bloody murder doesn’t. I changed and nursed the baby, put her in her bassinet when she fell asleep and ran upstairs to shower before she or my toddler woke up. Tell me why I can hear her from the upstairs bathroom when she’s in our room in the basement but her father who is about two feet away can’t?? And why do guys simply turn over and go back to sleep when they are awakened by the baby? I just don’t get it. Any noise from the baby and I’m up checking her breathing! It’s like he can ignore the baby crying but somehow the world will end if I do. Come on they gotta start making dads like moms or we ladies are all gonna lose our minds!!

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Sleeping in heatwave

When is everyone putting their babies to bed. I only ask because our bedroom egg thermometer is currently saying 30.3 degrees which is obviously far too hot for bub. We are camped out in the lounge with all the doors/windows open with fans on. I am also finding it difficult to get her to sleep because she is so used to being swaddled. Any tips or ideas?

Safe sleep

My baby’s room is currently 31 degrees I’ve had the blinds and curtains and window shut all day and only just opened the window to get some air in I have now put a fan in that blowing around the room it points onto her for a few seconds and blows straight back off on a low setting is this safe? Panicking 😩🤣

Gro Egg reliability???

It’s showing as 25 degrees in our bedroom again tonight, but our 5 week old won’t sleep in just a nappy so we put him in a vest and he was still upset so we added a sleep suit and he managed to sleep. But based on all the advice we’ve seen online this is the wrong amount of layers for the room temp. Beginning to think the gro egg isn’t accurate as we have been sleeping comfortably in thin pjs and a duvet with a fan by the bedroom door and window open (fan not near baby and doesn’t blow on him). I’m so stressed about it, is anyone else feeling the same?!

Bedroom 29 degrees

Our 5 month old and 2 1/2 year olds rooms are sitting at 29 degrees…
I’ve tried everything to cool down.
I’ve taken toddlers duvet away and baby will be in just a nappy tonight. Is that okay? I’m panicking about how hot our rooms are

Heat

My little girls room is 28 degrees and its not dropping no matter what I've tried today! Ive been trying to get her to sleep for the past hour and she is sweating.
Ive tried cooling her down with cool water on her hands feet and back of the neck, and shes only in a nappy no sleep bag.
Feel like its going to be a long night🥵

Baby sleeping a lot in the heat

Hey, is anyone else’s baby super sleepy today??

my little girl seems totally normal in herself but she is sleeping a lot today basically back to back naps with really short wake windows, I’m making sure she isn’t going more than 1.5- 2hrs without some bottle or breast though because I don’t want her to get dehydrated

she is still giving plenty of wet nappy’s and smiling and alert while she’s awake but is anyone else’s baby just exhausted in this heat?

My house is VERY hot we have all the blinds down and fans on full but can’t seem to get it below 26 degrees. She’s just in a nappy and doesn’t feel uncomfortably hot when in her bassinets but does get sweaty when we’re holding her

I have the owlet sock on her too I just worry about this heat