Bf said I’m nagging

I wanna break up with my bf, im tired of the constant conversations and no changes, he’ll reassure me today and go back on his words tomorrow.. He always come over, we’ll have sex and he’ll leave immediately.. I complained to him, told him I don’t like feeling like I’m a booty call.. so he came over today and we had sex, then he said he doesn’t like the way I complain about him not calling me, me saying he doesn’t love me or care for me, he said he sees it as nagging and he doesn’t like women that nags… At the moment I felt very hurt, me expressing my feelings is nagging? I didn’t say anything to him, he left as usual.. I wanna call it off cos I’m tired and done.. we never spend time together, he doesn’t stay for long with me, and I call him my boyfriend? He said it’s making him see me like a relationship and not a friend… we’ve been in this for 2yrs lol… and I asked him “are we friends?” Cos I’m confused.. he said we are more than that, deeper than that… then what?
I’m emotionally tired tbh.. I wanna call it off and he’s not picking his call. I don’t wanna text him, I want him to hear me call it off.

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