Am I being unreasonable?

I currently have a 7 week old and a 7 year old. My husband came home from work I had made him his tea which he ate, he then held the baby whilst I had a quick tidy up and put all the washing away.
He then informed me he was going to the pub to watch the football.
I asked if he could stay home as my eldest still has homework to do, the baby needs a bath, I need to express some milk, and it’s hard work getting them both to sleep, I also haven’t eaten any tea yet, I am shattered and I have a broken ankle to add to the mix.
He said I always make him feel like shit whenever he wants to do something and I shouldn’t have a problem with it. He then proceeded to tell me I should go
Out more often as he would prefer it 😡

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Absolute arsehole!! You deserve better, they’re his children too!!

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You made him his tea yet you haven't had any yourself?
Why are you not eating with your children when they eat?
He's a grown ass man he can make his own food.
And also go out this weekend, leave him with the kids, go to the cinema, do some shopping sit and have coffee and cake. Then go home eat your tea and go out again, see how he likes it!

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I cannot believe this man is for real. You must be pulling my leg!?

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