Sleep

Our LO has just turned 3 a month a go & wow what a whirlwind. Reading posts about behaviour definitely does not make me feel alone 🙌🏽 however, on top of all of that we are at a stage of no sleep again…

She has recently been climbing out of her cot every night so we decided to put her in a toddler bed last night to avoid any accidents etc, but holy moly, that was worse. Of course it was going to be worse because she can easily get out of it but wow oh wow.

She has been delaying (or atleast trying) bedtime, and when shes up in the night, trying everything in the book for some attention e.g, wanting a drink, a cuddle, a poo, a new one last night was to brush her hair 😂 so i know its for attention. I’m also 9 months pregnant which doesnt help haha. We have just been putting her back in it over and over again, but also by the time we get to her bedroom door shes back out again (cot & toddler bed), its driving me nuts

I guess my question is, is anyone else experiencing the same or similar? How long did it last? Is there an end in sight 😂 any tips or even if you can relate 😂

in our community

Next to me crib

How do you get newborn to sleep in the next to me?

I have tried but end up giving up, going downstairs putting him in the carry cot and he is absolutely fine/drifts off!

Ive tried putting a top in the next to me so he can smell me but that doesn't seem to work.

Environment is the same; dark room etc.

He's 7 days old today, is it just perseverance and eventually he will just do it? Or are there any tips to encourage him to stay/sleep in the next 2 me?

2 stages in one!

3 months in and WOW… nobody warned me about this stage 😂😭

One minute she’s smiling, cooing, the sweetest little angel…
Next minute I’m being screamed at because I dared to change her nappy or put a sleeve on the wrong arm 🙃

Apparently this is a “developmental leap” AND the start of an early sleep regression…
I call it:
✨ tiny human with BIG emotions and zero patience (and no interest in sleep) ✨

We’ve got:
• 30 minute naps
• dramatic outfit changes
• only-mum-will-do moments
• random meltdowns for absolutely no reason (or all the reasons??)
• and a sleep schedule that changes its mind daily 😅

But also… the smiles, the cuddles, the way she settles on me like I’m her whole world 🥹

So yeah… it’s a lot right now.
Messy, exhausting, emotional… but still somehow the best thing ever.

Anyone else in the trenches with a 3 month old? Send help… or snacks 😅🤍

Food shopping

Please help how to do a food shop with a 4 month old! At the moment I put her car seat in a shallow trolley and can only buy limited stuff till its full and fill my massive bag on the hook which isn't enough. She can't sit up so can't go in the sit up ones, I can't wear her for that long takes about 15 minutes and my back feels like its going to break, the pram storage only holds limited stuff I wonder if I'm missing something obvious? I know you can get ones to put the car seat in but there's never been one available when I've been! Any help would be grateful

Unpopular opinion 👀

Baby sleep consultants have made an industry out of exhausted mums wanting a ‘fix’ to their babies sleep, even though there’s no such thing

I’ve been feeling down about motherhood

Hi, I just wanted to express myself a little bit on here. To feel normal again. At times it feels like I can’t catch my breath. At times idk what decisions to make. Does this get easier? As a first time mom/ SAHM, I’ve been feeling lost. Yes I know that being a SAHM is hard work and it is best for my child but at times ( and I’ve heard another mom talk about this on here, which I related too)it feels like I’m not doing enough. Like I do want to connect with myself more and things like that but I have OCD which makes it hard to ignore messes in the house or I am constantly planning or organizing or scheduling. It’s like it’s hard to ignore or not stay productive. I feel bad when I am not productive or doing something to help my family. I also feel just kinda lost right now in life. I know that it’s not good to keep doing and doing all day and I need to have time where I have to myself and my interests, but things feel so far from me to do because it takes time, money and a clear head. I often also am hard on myself which I need to stop doing and I struggle with anxiety around perfection and performance. Idk a way around this… any tips? I just want to be able to have life figured out but I know it’s not reality? Can anyone relate to having a mind that just won’t rest? I just have been feeling like I want more for my life.

Breast pumps

I need suggestions on wearable non expensive breast pumps, I’ve heard about the momcozy ones but they’re way out of my price range, I’m looking for one that is strong as the one I have now is just so weak and does nothing