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Incognito Only! 👻

How would this sound to you?

Is this passive aggressive? “You don’t need to…” maybe “check on the chickens”
Like if there’s chickens at work and you would like to check them out.. 🤣
Or what would you think check or check out.. check in is? See? Admire? Spend time with? -Even though you don’t have to worry about them. lol. I used chickens as an example but use it!!

Or would it sound better as you can look at them anytime but you don’t have to take care of them or you don’t need to take care of them? 🤣

Let me know your thoughts

My brain shrunk and with me only spending 24/7 with babies, toddler and kids for 5years straight no adult interaction and the world around you changed without your knowledge and now you have to adjust and relearn it as if you were 18 all over again 🤣 I’m stuck years ago.. I’m not the age I’m supposed to be. I’m on pause and I feel so lonely because I only had myself. I didn’t talk to another adult. I wasn’t even using the speach brain part where I should talk because why would I talk to myself?! 🤣 everything is in my head and in texts but never saying the words so I’m trying to talk in person but I’m struggling but I’m trying at least. My speech process is different than my thought&type process so I am more comfortable in text rather than saying them. So my brain is soooo messed up I wanted to make sure it doesn’t sound mean 🤣 but yeah sorry I can’t send a recording because I never recorded how it sounded like because that makes a big difference but I think text is ok? Would make me feel better whether you give me correct or wrong answer because I wouldn’t even know the difference lol. But a sugar coated answer would make me feel better 🤣 and not feel awkward 🤣 but if the sugar coated answer is correct then I truly hope so! And if not then that’s ok! I at least won’t feel awkward 🤣 but if I upset my coworker, or made her feel threatened then I’ll stay away 🤣. But I’ll still keep it nice and professional with her because she is a great lady it was just what she said that threw me off 🤣 it won’t get out of my head 🤣 i keep telling myself she didn’t mean it to offend me just probably thinking I wanted to take something 🤣 although yes, it is offered. I was just curious though. But if there’s not enough for everyone well that’s ok.. I wish I could tell her “ you make it enough for everyone. Give everyone a chance” 🤣 but it’s ok! I don’t need it. I also don’t like excuses. I just thought to check it out. Is what I did because I never seen such thing and I’m curious.. I want to build something that also produces something similar. Like a chicken 🤣 but no, I just eat a chocolate before I pass out at work so I’m good!

I love my job and I love my coworkers but I do feel like a weirdo, I feel like a creep. But I also feel like I just came out of prison and feel like I’m 18 over again relearning to adult again… the sahm life messed me up. One mistake is I didn’t even make an Llc out of a sahm which don’t make that mistake mamas, get that LLC as a stay at home mom!!! Get paid to be a sahm. Don’t miss your opportunity!! I wish I knew this before I lost a big chunk of my life. Please don’t be a victim of Domestic violence and financial abuse is under domestic violence so if you a stay at home mom make sure you getting your money!!! Don’t let a man say not to worry about anything and that he gots you.. no, you get the money and you handle everything. He can continue working but you handle the money, groceries, clothes.. etc.. and both handle chores!!


Sorry I mixed up everything in one.. but I am messed up all over!! Dv messed me up badly. And I keep finding out a lot of new details about myself and this world that changed without me.. it’s so overwhelming so I came for clarification and the rest just added on. And pray nobody goes thru the same thing I did