Should I let him miss the appointment he booked?

Baby Daddy has been sleeping ALL day, woke up once to use the bathroom and then said “I’m going back to bed”. Says he doesn’t feel well, however this is a continual pattern..

We’ve been bickering all week about a variety of issues (this excessive sleeping/him not pulling his weight being one) So he booked us a therapy session so he could “have someone else explain why I’m wrong” It starts at 9pm (virtual) I’ve been alone with baby all day and I’m tired. It seems as though he’s forgotten about this meeting. Should I wake him up like his Mother or let him sleep through it and suffer the consequences (no show fee) to make a point? I can’t help but have the “if he doesn’t care I don’t care either” mentality rn.
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Judge away if you must, maybe its always been this way, but it really feels like there was a huge shift in how we mamage contact and sleep.

I can’t believe some of you let your babies watch Ms Rachel 🤬

Instead of letting your babies sit in front of the telly watching Ms Rachel…
Try educational alternatives like Deal or no Deal, we’re having a blast 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Hey ladys

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Should I let him miss the appointment he booked?Baby Daddy has been sleeping ALL day, woke up once to use the bathroom and then said “I’m going back to bed”. Says he doesn’t feel well, however this is a continual pattern..

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