Inspired by another post: If/would you make your child pay rent/bills? If so what age would you start?

Obviously I don't mean they would be paying like half the money of household bills, but like $10 for rent and maybe $5 for WiFi or groceries. Something to teach them about bills and responsibility.

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They can learn financial responsibility in different ways. I’ve never heard of a teenager being charged rent before 🤔 and my teenager I mean a child still in school.

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We don’t charge our kids rent unless they choose to not go to school after they graduate. However. Luxuries have always been on them to pay. So cell phones. Driving a car. Car insurance. Those are luxuries that they pay their portion of the bill for.

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I say when they start working , that’s when they can buy their own clothes and pay for their own cell .

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Yea I would definitely make my ADULT child who still lives with me Pay rent. I started living on my own when I was 17 yrs old and paying my own rent & living independently & it set me up for success, I think living with mommy and daddy as an adult without paying rent sets ppl up for failure. Ppl need to know that living ain’t free. During my single days, I remember being so turned off by so many who still lived with their parents & had no clue of how to be adults cuz their parents took care of the rent. Smh ick

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Only an adult child would I charge rent.
And it will likely be for a very short time b/c the goal is to be independent and on their own. No 30 yr olds living in my basement lol.

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Never. My home is always their home too

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