My partner has this habit of declining my invitations for me without even asking me. The most recent thing is I got asked if I wanted to watch Wrestlemania over at a couple’s house that my partner works with and they asked if my partner wanted to come. My partner told them no because “I’m not into that kind of stuff”. I was really upset because it’s not the first time this has happened that he’s answered on my behalf without even asking me if I’d like to.
I don’t hate WWE, I will watch it if it’s on and enjoy it. No it’s not something I gravitate towards to if I’m home alone, but trust me it’d be the first thing on if I didn’t have anything to watch. I can’t help that I don’t know everything about it and I don’t always want to watch it like he does, but I would have loved to go watch it with them. It’s an event and it’s for like 5/6 hours. Why not?
I also haven’t made any friends living here and that was maybe an opportunity for me to have a bit of a social life which is what my partner said he wanted for me and he just shut it down. It hurts really bad because I don’t even have my family here. This would have honestly helped me so much. It would have been so nice and I’m so mad.
I’ve already spoken to him and he just says he’s sorry. I’m scared he’s going to do it again and people won’t want to invite me next time because he’s made it seem like I despise something when actually I don’t.
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Considering that they are his co workers and he doesn’t want you to go and hang out with them is a bit sketchy. There’s probably something going on that he doesn’t want you to know about. That’s just my thinking but I could be wrong, who knows. As your husband he should want you to get along with his co workers.