Marital advice
Me and my husband have been together since I was 19 (now 37), married 12 years and have 2 children. We still get on great, regularly intimate, Iāve felt very blessed until this point..
Iāve recently found out however that when my second born was 2 weeks old, my husband went away on a work trip and was removed from the trip due to a night out where heād gotten very wasted,taken drugs, and then proceeded to try it on with this woman so much to the point she reported him to the manager the next day.
At the time he said he decided to come home because it was too much with the baby etc.
it is now 7 months later when Iāve found out.
He said firstly he wasnāt trying with her and hes fucked up by reading the room wrong etc but then also says he doesnāt remember as so out of it and itās a little back tracky. The story is way too vague, I feel heās withholding what really happened and for the woman to have reported him i believe something happened. Thankfully the reports arenāt for anything physical.
Now i know nothing āhappenedā as clearly the woman wasnāt interested, but i feel betrayed his attention was for something to and that heād behave that way whilst im at home with my mother looking after a 2 week old baby.
Hes very remorseful and wants to do anything to make sure we stay together and as a family⦠i feel if no kids were around weād at least be separated for a month or so but obviously kids make it so much harder.
As far as im aware this is an isolated incident.
Just not sure what to do! How do people work around such conflicts when children are involved.