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It’s coming up on 2 years since my daughter passed. I feel like I’m still unable to grieve correctly due to the mistreatment I was treated like the day she passed. When she passed the corner came in the room and the first thing he said to me was “so CPS was at your house last night?” Mind you CPS has NEVER been to my house. After we left the hospital we had to do a reinactment with a fake baby doll on how we found her. When I was sitting on the side of my bed he stated “this is what happens when mothers sleep with their babies, they die” during this entire time I felt in survival mode. No tears, feeling like I was in a front row of a horror scene. Nothing made sense. We later find out she passed of a viral infection, I had to call him for the report he never called me. It was a terrible situation I’m from a small town and wasn’t ever able to share because I’m scared of backlash. Coming up on 2 years I want to speak about it, should I?

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Sorry for your loss. Are you in therapy or talked about it with other people?

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No advice but I'm so sorry

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I'm so sorry for what you went through 😔 And your profound loss!! It's truly your decision obviously if you speak or share your story maybe just think about positives or negatives of sharing it and whom you would share it with matters I believe also it's so difficult to have advice for something we haven't lived through . This is your life to tell or talk about !!! Again I'm so sorry for what you went through 😞💔

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