Baby dad worries
I’m just in the position where I just don’t know what to do anymore there are a couple of problems going on and it’s getting to much for me to handle
1. Me and my baby dad are in a relationship he goes to work 40+ hours a week and I’m a stay at home I am grateful for that but I do wish I could have some free time away from my daughter and be working as well as making more money. My partner doesn’t help pay for anything for my daughter or for me. Including being able to and do stuff. Plus after work and the weekends he’s really tired so we don’t ever do anything as a family. I’m struggling with the amount of money I get off universal credit.
2 He has got a good job and has worked there for 5 years ish I think but recently they have added a women to the workplace and ever since he has been a bit off and he enjoys going to the pub with her and his boss. I’m not included anyone when it comes to going out with the work lot and I do think it has something to do with her? I don’t know if I’m just a massive over thinker but he just falls out with me whenever we talk about it. Sex life what the hell even is sex that’s what it has turned into we don’t cuddle and we don’t ever kiss. He goes to work comes back I put my daughter to bed I make his tea then he rolls over and goes to sleep
3 He never lets me look at his phone. The other day when he was asleep his phone received a message and I looked over and as soon as I had moved he put his hand over his phone just so I couldn’t see. Which I think is being secretive
4 every time we have an argument he turns his location off which I think he must be doing something and then when I ask for it to be turned back on he says it’s gone forever I have lost it.
5 i feel I am being over dramatic but also not at the same time. I’ve struggled with post natal depression since my daughter was born and still on the anti depression medication
Is there anyone on here that has dpd as I think I might have this disorder and wondering if I should talk to the doctors about everything. I am at the point where if someone asks if I’m okay I just burst out into tears and unable to talk. If you’ve managed to read up to here thank you and I just want someone else’s opinion and what i should do
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Sounds like some fed red flags 🚩 especially not letting you go on his phone something shady…..
Sounds horrible especially when you have a child together and suffering too.
I think if your partner was kind and loving you would feel more supported. But he sounds like he is neglecting you emotionally therefore you needing more help and it’s affecting you more whilst have dpd. Xx
Sounds like emotional and financial abuse on his end. If you think he’s cheating then he most likely is since he is hiding his phone from
I hate to be this person but even my husband says it sounds like hes cheating. Im not trying to discourage or hurt you but I thought you should know from a males standpoint
🚩🚩🚩 try to sit and think deeply what makes you happy. Do you wanna stay in a relationship like this? Or is there a way we can talk it out? It takes 2 to tango so for a relationship specifically marriage to work it has to be both of you are all in. No half way.. calm yourself first then think which way is good for you and your family.
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