Found out today my baby daddy has been secretly dating my nanny for almost a half year… she was one of my closest friends for years and I knew something started feeling off. She held me while I cried about our breakup so many times. Shes TWENTY years younger than him. Poor girl is dropping out of school bc she thinks he’s going to “take care of her”. While he makes millions a year and has successfully hid it so well he’s only paying me half of what she makes a month (barely anything I can’t even afford to rent the crappiest apartment in my county and have to back to my parents house). Truly such a trope and I feel bad for her. Just wish I could warn her. She’ll learn… but good luck everyone getting a nanny job again. Any advice? I’m going to be kind and civil this could become my babies mom but I am just so betrayed and utterly heartbroken.
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That doesn't mean she will become your baby's mom. You are the mom. I would be pissed they both could kick rocks

Women like that never win. If she was a real women and truly cared about him + your baby…. It wouldn’t had been in secret. She’s a coward along with him and doesn’t seem to have the best intention for anyone including you and your baby. You already mention what you experienced and what you felt was off. Time and God will of the rest. Focus on healing, building your future, and hopefully not having to experience this again. Sending love and strength ❤️