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hi everyone
i just recently separated from my babies narcissistic father (he left us) and im feeling really really hopeless. im back at home in a different state since i was a SAHM and i feel really isolated.
does anyone have a similar situation that i could talk to? or maybe just a chat? i don’t know how im going to survive alone lol

in our community

Pls help x

Hey Mamas right, nothing to do with baby lool.

So usually my husband initiates sex and everything. Before pregnancy I used to initiate as well, but during pregnancy and after, I honestly don’t feel like it 😭. Even during pregnancy when we did have sex, I just didn’t enjoy it at all — I kept thinking about the baby etc. I’m now 2 months postpartum and definitely don’t want another baby anytime soon ofc lool.

But ladies… recently I’ve been thinking of ways to make sex more enjoyable again. How do I actually make sex enjoyable? Do you use sex toys? are you against them? Please feel free to share, I’m genuinely just curious!! Any tips would be greatly appreciated! x

Am I right?

My boyfriend took our baby to see one of his friends who is a girl but he didn’t tell me and I found out myself.. it’s not the fact he took the baby to see her it’s the fact he hasn’t told me?
We haven’t been getting on for a while and he seems to be being disrespectful a lot lately

Honest feedback

I’ve been thinking about continuing mommy & me Pilates/workout classes and creating more spaces where moms can bring baby.

Do you think this is something moms actually want? Would you go?

Would genuinely love your thoughts/advice before I continue building this out 🫶🏼

If you need a visual to see the concept my page is @motherpilatesla

Childcare account reconfirmation whilst on Maternity Allowance

I need to reconfirm my account but I am now on Maternity Allowance with my 3rd baby. Is there a box I need to tick to state this to continue to get my 3 year olds hours?

Not my cup of tea

What do you do if your mum starts to chat you you on here but she’s not your cup of tea so you’re not interested in being friends?

I have 2 under 2 so very little time, a mum has messaged me who had kids way older than mine so we’re could never do play dates and our interests don’t align. I don’t even have time for my family right now let alone new friends who aren’t my vibe. But if there was someone who contacted me who looked like bestie material I would make time for it.

So what’s the kindest thing to do?

Sex became a task for me

Ever since I got pregnant until now, baby is 18 months old, I totally lost my sex drive. It’s become a task for me that I still have to fulfill at the end of the day. We probably do it like 2-3 times per week. My husband wants me on top and not only do I dislike doing it, I also just don’t have the strength for it anymore. Physically and mentally.

I feel sorry for him because he’s doing so much for the family but it just feels like a burden to me. Today I kind of snapped when he wanted me on top again and I told him how I’m doing this for him and that it’s a task for me and I’d rather just go to bed or watch tv. Of course he got turned off, sad, disappointed and feels unloved and unwanted.

I really don’t know what to do. We don’t have a village, it’s just us. We’re rocking this thing but it’s taking its toll on me.
I don’t want to ruin our marriage through this but I also can’t just fake it anymore.

What can I do to enjoy this more again?