Pls help x

Hey Mamas right, nothing to do with baby lool.

So usually my husband initiates sex and everything. Before pregnancy I used to initiate as well, but during pregnancy and after, I honestly don’t feel like it 😭. Even during pregnancy when we did have sex, I just didn’t enjoy it at all — I kept thinking about the baby etc. I’m now 2 months postpartum and definitely don’t want another baby anytime soon ofc lool.

But ladies… recently I’ve been thinking of ways to make sex more enjoyable again. How do I actually make sex enjoyable? Do you use sex toys? are you against them? Please feel free to share, I’m genuinely just curious!! Any tips would be greatly appreciated! x

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Comments that irritate

‘This is why you shouldn’t have kids unless you are married’

Someone said this to me on a video I commented on tik tok, however I was with my ex HUSBAND 10 years married 3 and a half before we had babies. A piece of paper makes no difference.

Maybe the signs were always there but I feel he definitely changed after I got pregnant with our eldest…

Annoyed

Last night my boyfriend was actually horny for once we was kissing and I was wanking him off then he cum and that was it no sex so it did nothing for me when he knows I’m not happy about the lack of sex it’s now been 12 days . I then thought we would go on to have sex a little bit later but he just went to sleep? Is this weird ? I’m thinking it’s lazy and selfish .

Condom broke

I’m 5 months pp and the condom just completely broke and I can’t even use plan B cuz I still weigh too much 😭. Just need reassurance. Did u get pregnant again quick? I was pumping the first 3 months and got my period like right at 7 weeks but it’s been extremely irregular like I got my period twice in a month. Now I’m breastfeeding and pump once a day. I’m hoping the breastfeeding is stalling my ovulation but idk man. I’m gonna get ovulation strips in the morning. I really can’t have another baby rn ugh.

Where my girls attttttt

I’m looking for the mommas that want someone to check up on them almost everyday. And I’m currently feeling like linking up soooo wya?

Do you think trans children grow out of being trans?

Someone close to me has a child that came out as trans. They are waiting to tell others in the family this "just in case" their child changes their mind or grows out of it. In my experience I came out twice, the first time at a young age and was repeatedly dismissed that it was a phase and was told not to tell others in the family, I went back into the closet, the second time I was much older and felt I had wasted my twenties after letting family gaslight me into thinking they knew me better than I knew myself. That's just me, I know others who thought they were trans and later realized they weren't, but I want to know how common do parents think it is for their child to not actually be trans after coming out.

*I will report any transphobic or hateful comments, you can make your point without being impolite. This isn't a debate on everything transgender, only about if parents believe their children when they come out or if they have doubts.

Debating on seperation

I'm at a loss and not sure what to do my husband and I have been together for 12 years and 3 years married however my love for him and connection is fading his true colours really showed during my pregnancy when he wasn't there for me when I needed support and only came to one appointment with me since the arrival of our daughter he hasn't really stepped up to the dad role is always working late which he chooses too and really only helps on weekends. He barely even knows her ques and what she needs or wants and she is already 8 months old. I'm so lost on what to do and yes I have been talking to a counselor about these issues just good to hear others opinions