Have you ever suspected a relative or close friend as being a child predator?
What were the red flags/signs that led you to feel that way? What did you do?
I have a relative who I have never left alone with my child even for a minute as I don't trust him due to his odd behaviour and constant need to try and get my child alone (have never allowed it) and a need for various forms of physical touch - all "innocent" but it is relentless and I feel exhausted after he visits from monitoring the situation the whole time. Anyone else gone through this?
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*potential child predator
I always say trust your mummy instincts.
If it feels off stand by it!
No but that gut instinct is enough, no more visits 🙅🏽♀️
I haven't personally.
Chose the other/comment option though to add this:
If you are England based you can use Sarah's law to see if they have any record for sexual offences.
My abuser was a female relative, my parents did not notice but looking back I think the red flags in front of my parents were how often she wanted time with just the kids or just me and how upset she would be if she didn't get that time, as well as how she spoke about me in regards to my appearance or sometimes talents (over-the-top compliments or overly picky criticisms). Physical touch in front of parents remained innocent but was pushy and sometimes manipulative (example: "Give me a hug and kiss goodbye or I'm going to start crying"). Trust your gut if it's telling you not to trust him alone with them.
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