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I dont feel like im cut out for being a mom and i feel so stuck and its so hard and im so tired. Idk what im gunna do

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I promise you, it gets easier, better and way more fun. Hang in there. What you are feeling is normal. Most of us felt that way. Stay strong and somehow, someway, do things you love doing every day. I spent many days doing things just for my babies and forgot it’s my life too. Take them to your favorite store and buy yourself a new shirt and a snack. You got this!!!

Girl you got this!!! Yes it is hard at times but just look at the beautiful baby you made and push through it. It was rough for the first 2 weeks for me I thought the same thing but that beautiful little baby girl that I made just made me keep pushing. Now at 2 months I feel like I was always a mom like nothing will stop me doing what I need to for her. Keep pushing don’t give up it’s worth it. We are here for you.

I have an 8 week old and felt this until just recently! Message me anytime!

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Hello, I found out my boyfriend sent his female colleague £50 for her 30th birthday as she was also going on holiday so said it was for that too. They worked together for 6 years but he doesn't work there anymore. He didnt tell me he sent her money. Hes really kind and generous but its annoying me he didn't tell me and it felt like a secret. Do we think this is odd?

intimacy with my man….

hey ladies , sooooo to jump right into this my man has been complaining about our fun time & saying i never want to “ put out “ but it’s kind of hard when he says things like “ I want to get you pregnant again “ “ I miss making love with no protection “ “ when you were pregnant I could finish inside of you “ ( I know sorryyyy tmi ) but I just need validation . i’m 3yrs pp yay , i’m finally starting to feel like myself & get my body back & in no way am I ready for another child & honestly i’m in the mindset of 1 & DONE . i love my son & he’s more than enough . but I feel like he wants another one or at least wants me pregnant cause “ I wanted him more “ or because he was able to not wear protection . but now when we do make love he pisses me off because he TAKES OFF THE CONDOM without me noticing & I get mad cause dude i’m not trying to get PREGNANT ! but then he gives me the sob story of how he can’t feel it with it on & it doesn’t feel good…. like dude idc im trying to stay protected . so it honestly makes me not want to do anything with him ! also my labido has been off since I gave birth . I don’t care to have that pleasure anymore… but I know he “ needs it “ . idk what to do . & yes i’ve talked to him about it & he just says “ I don’t remember taking it off “ or try’s lie saying he never took it off . & he just gets mad at me saying he’s so frustrated cause I don’t “ put out anymore “…..

How often would you say you need sex?

I only cave it like 2-3 times a month. This is my personal opinion and experience 👇

I feel there’s a big group of women who only crave sex 2-4 times a month and are afraid to own it. And this could be from their unfulfilling sexual experiences, problems with their partner, exhaustion, or just how often they naturally crave it and feel genuinely aroused.

And most of these women often end up having more sex than what they actually grave bc societal pressure to be a sexual woman and their partners requiring it more frequently so they end up having sex not properly aroused. And the men end up believing that that is something normal a woman can do but its not and it ends up affecting her and therefore affecting their relationship.

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