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Someone from Church gave me a lift home and we both have young kids and he was saying that his shoulders hurt because he slept funny, and I said, oh tell me about it, our one comes into our bed in the night and you have to sleep on the edge of the bed. And he goes, "oh that's not good, that can't be good for your sex life"

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That is a weird thing for a man to say when he's alone with a woman he's just giving a ride to....

I think that is a weird thing to say to you, unless you are very close to this person and it is something you would talk to him about anyway but by reading your post I don’t imagine it is something you would discuss with him anyway

Unless this is a close girlfriend of yours, then yes it’s weird.

It's inappropriate, especially from a male church member who is taking you home from church. It makes me wonder what he was expecting in response because there's not many ways to reply to that comment (you'd either have to laugh along- giving him what he thinks is a pass to keep making inappropriate comments, agree with him that it isn't good for your sex life, or defend that your sex life is fine). I wouldn't accept any more rides from him and if he makes any more inappropriate comments maybe tell someone from the church that can help correct him on what are appropriate conversations to be having in these settings & with members of the church.

Extremely inappropriate. I think he was trying to spark a conversation…

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So my husband was arrested on April 2026. I am pregnant and have a one year-old girl I’ve been struggling ! Even though I was already looking for a exit plan I don’t know what I’m gonna do. He wouldn’t let me get a job so I am looking for a job and I’m moving back to my parents.

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For a while now I’ve been feeling sooooo low and can’t make myself feel good.
I just feel ugly, like literally hideous. I don’t like the way I look, I wonder how my partner could even look at me and find me attractive in the slightest.
I keep trying out new styles or copying the way others look to try and make myself feel better in some way, to no avail.
I can’t tell if I feel like I’m getting old, or mum life has taken its toll on me, or if I’ve just lost all confidence in myself.
I need to know if anyone else has felt this way and if there was ever a way you were able to like what you see in the mirror again?

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I feel like I’m loosing touch with people daily,
I don’t have many friends or mum friends as I cut people off easily,
And It take me a lot to let people in,
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I’ve had enough of people saying they’re gonna come round. I will stay in and then they not turn up and give some fob excuse of why they didn’t
But every day i’m expected to wake up put a smile on my face and carry on like as if it didn’t affect me
Everyone sees me as this strong aggressive woman thats always there to talk to,
Don’t get me wrong if anyone needed to talk I’m always there for them, I will be that one to talk, to cry to, what ever,
even just someone to have tea or lunch with or a play date with the kids,

But when I tell a friend that I’m physically and emotionally exhausted, in pain and sick of seeing the same 4 walls,
They seem to start going on about how hard they have it like I don’t matter and they are worse off,

I feel so angry all the time.
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