Maybe I have an unpopular opinion

Why does it matter so much to others if you are straight, gay, lesbian, bi, nonbinary etc (yes, I know there are several others, but I gave up a while ago keeping up with all the variations). If you are not harming anyone or anything and are not pushing your lifestyle on someone else, THEN WHO CARES. I've seen so many posts saying "does this make me gay or bi" Honestly, who says sexuality is linear? If you like it and it's not hurting anyone then go for it. You only have one life.

Now I have to admit I do have an issue when you identify as an animal or alien or something like that.

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So I’m in the LGBTQIA+ and so I agree- it harms no one… but I want to add for clarity that being gay isn’t a lifestyle…

We were discussing on my break today how next month is pride month and i asked them (two hella gay guys, "im bi but in a hetero relationship, so is next month still my month too?" And one guy said no cuz im married with a kid and pregnant lol

People ask because they are trying to figure out who they are

I agree people ask to have a better understanding of themselves

Internalized homophobia.

What said. But also, you actually made me think of something that kind of goes along with what Zainab said. Maybe people truly don’t know how or where they fit in because there are so many identifications? And they feel the need to fit into that exact box. I’m sure it’s extremely confusing, especially for young people.

in our community

Do you think this is inappropriate?

Someone from Church gave me a lift home and we both have young kids and he was saying that his shoulders hurt because he slept funny, and I said, oh tell me about it, our one comes into our bed in the night and you have to sleep on the edge of the bed. And he goes, "oh that's not good, that can't be good for your sex life"

Feeling horrible

So my husband was arrested on April 2026. I am pregnant and have a one year-old girl I’ve been struggling ! Even though I was already looking for a exit plan I don’t know what I’m gonna do. He wouldn’t let me get a job so I am looking for a job and I’m moving back to my parents.

Am I being a bitch?

2nd date. Guy offers to cook me a meal at his place. I arrive and he makes me a jacket potato with baked beans and cheese.

Thoughts?

Question for my pregnant mamas

I'm still consistently having sex with the hubs every day, but I want to make it more exciting for him. For context I'm 22 weeks. Missionary is becoming uncomfortable, and for some reason I'm terrified of getting on top. I like to ride but it always makes me feel nervous with him staring at me. Any tips?

Hiii

So I’m 8 months postpartum and I’ve truly been in the trenches and am trying to do better for me and my baby. I want to start feeling like myself, slowly but surely and I think a way for me to do is to make friends that are also moms. I’m not originally from here (I’m from NY) and I don’t have many friends here but the ones that I do are not moms so it’s been a little difficult to relate as of late (love them so so deeply though). I am looking to make genuine friends that we can simply just sit in each other presence and also maybe actually plan things sometimes 😭 we can be low effort AND high effort! 😭

Period disc’s

My period is back ahhh!! I use to use tampons but I’m thinking of switching over to period disc’s. If any of you ladies have used them and love any specific brand I would so love to know which ones!! I have 2 under 2 so realistically I need something that is low maintenance and easy to use!!