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So I’m 8 months postpartum and I’ve truly been in the trenches and am trying to do better for me and my baby. I want to start feeling like myself, slowly but surely and I think a way for me to do is to make friends that are also moms. I’m not originally from here (I’m from NY) and I don’t have many friends here but the ones that I do are not moms so it’s been a little difficult to relate as of late (love them so so deeply though). I am looking to make genuine friends that we can simply just sit in each other presence and also maybe actually plan things sometimes 😭 we can be low effort AND high effort! 😭

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Someone from Church gave me a lift home and we both have young kids and he was saying that his shoulders hurt because he slept funny, and I said, oh tell me about it, our one comes into our bed in the night and you have to sleep on the edge of the bed. And he goes, "oh that's not good, that can't be good for your sex life"

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Feeling horrible

So my husband was arrested on April 2026. I am pregnant and have a one year-old girl I’ve been struggling ! Even though I was already looking for a exit plan I don’t know what I’m gonna do. He wouldn’t let me get a job so I am looking for a job and I’m moving back to my parents.

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Shrimp scampi pasta

Tried for the first time last night came out so so good! Let me know if you want the recipe 😊

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Identity crisis

For a while now I’ve been feeling sooooo low and can’t make myself feel good.
I just feel ugly, like literally hideous. I don’t like the way I look, I wonder how my partner could even look at me and find me attractive in the slightest.
I keep trying out new styles or copying the way others look to try and make myself feel better in some way, to no avail.
I can’t tell if I feel like I’m getting old, or mum life has taken its toll on me, or if I’ve just lost all confidence in myself.
I need to know if anyone else has felt this way and if there was ever a way you were able to like what you see in the mirror again?

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Am I being a bitch?

2nd date. Guy offers to cook me a meal at his place. I arrive and he makes me a jacket potato with baked beans and cheese.

Thoughts?

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Hiii

So I’m 8 months postpartum and I’ve truly been in the trenches and am trying to do better for me and my baby. I want to start feeling like myself, slowly but surely and I think a way for me to do is to make friends that are also moms. I’m not originally from here (I’m from NY) and I don’t have many friends here but the ones that I do are not moms so it’s been a little difficult to relate as of late (love them so so deeply though). I am looking to make genuine friends that we can simply just sit in each other presence and also maybe actually plan things sometimes 😭 we can be low effort AND high effort! 😭

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Am I being a bitch?

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