Am I being a bitch?

2nd date. Guy offers to cook me a meal at his place. I arrive and he makes me a jacket potato with baked beans and cheese.

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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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NO ! Did this actually happen ?!

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Omg sounds like an episode of dinner date.

It's not even the jacket potato for me. It's the beans and cheese 🥴

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Oh hell naw they would never be seeing me again

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Maybe if we were 19 years old in college and he was broke…. But at this age, absolutely not 😅

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i personally love jacket potato with beans and cheese🤣

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I’m sorry this made me laugh out loud 😂

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lol is he testing u to see what u can handle or how cool u are cuz this an absolute no

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I actually think that's quite sweet 😋

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If we’d had a whole day out and were hungry then he said he’d throw us something together sure, if he went out of his way to invite you over for dinner then brought out this erm nope

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Maybe it's just me, but I give people the benefit of the doubt first.

So, in this case maybe he doesn't know how to cook and this was all he knew to make, or it's his absolute favorite meal. Sure, I can see the awkwardness and silly here, but is this the only thing about him that you found off putting? If so, then you're being a bitch.

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I'd be disappointed but I think it depends on how you feel about him aside from the cooking skills.

Wish I had witnessed my partner's cooking skills so early into our relationship or I would deffo eat less burnt pizzas & takeaways on his 1 night of cooking a week 😂😂

Hope he's not expecting any after dinner activities if he's made you a double carbs feast loaded up with fart promoters 😂😂😂

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This guy made zero effort.
Nah. I'm too shallow to accept this girl dinner from a man on a 2nd date.

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Throw a tin of tuna in the mix and I'd marry him tomorrow, it's my favourite tea 🤣🤣

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Am I being a bitch?

2nd date. Guy offers to cook me a meal at his place. I arrive and he makes me a jacket potato with baked beans and cheese.

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