My son‘s broken two TVs

My husband bought a 70 inch TV after my son has broken two TVs😩 we have been so strict about don’t touch the damn TV but now I’m low-key freaking out because that TV is expensive. How do I make sure he doesn’t mess with it?

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I feel like I should add he was 2 to 3 when he broke the first ones, and now he’s four
After our original TV broke, we got gifted a new one. We weren’t gonna buy a new one as a kind of punishment/reminder and the last one we’ve had for a year

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I would say no tv time for him. No phones/tablets things like that for a little bit. If he asks why, explain to him why and maybe tell him a chore he could do to earn it back?

What do u mean he broke it?? Is it not anchored to the wall???

I’d buy a protective cover for the tv. Better safe than sorry. Also, is it lower or mounted? Ours is mounted high on the wall, and I definitely recommend that. Hopefully he isn’t throwing object at your tv.

My son broke two TV’s when he was two years old, we swapped every single tv out of our house for projectors. Been working great ever since. (Every projector we bought (3 of em) combined totaled to the price of one tv lol)

Id not replace the tv

Put it in the wall mount it, or anchor it to the cabinet. You can buy cheap anchor kits so it doesn’t ever fall forward. We bought this house 2yrs ago and when we moved in there are brackets in the wall to mount the tv. Either he learns to sit on the couch and watches it properly or id turn it off

Tbh, you just don’t replace it till he’s older or learns.

We can’t wall mount our tv as we rent and our eldest damaged our big tv (by accident). We sorted it with insurance but it upped our premium and we’ve not replaced it.

Maybe just one in your bedroom till he learns. Don’t let him get to three strikes.

We can’t mount the TV because we’re renting and part of our rental agreement was absolutely no holes in the walls. Our TV stand is pretty tall though.

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Starting to come to the conclusion my daughter will be a only child, just like me 😭💔

Me and my partner have been together for almost 14 years. We waited so long to have kids, and then we went through infertility struggles for a while before finally having our daughter. I always dreamed of having a big family, at least 3 kids, and I truly thought we would build that life together.

But now, things feel so different. We barely get along anymore, and he has become such a miserable person. It feels like he’s constantly unhappy and always bringing up negative things , many of them situations that he created himself, but now he wants to play the victim in.

Before I had my daughter, I used to stay quiet and be more compliant just to keep the peace. But now that I’m older, and especially now that I’m a mother, I’m exhausted from pretending his behavior doesn’t affect me. It does affect me deeply, and I can’t keep carrying everything like this anymore.

What makes me even sadder is that I still want more children, but now I’m scared. Even if I were to go through IVF with a donor, part of me feels like he would make our lives miserable anyway. It hurts so much because the dream I had for my future and my family feels like it’s slipping away, and I feel overwhelmed and heartbroken.

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I hate confrontation but for my own mental health, I feel I need to send this to my MIL. Would appreciate your thoughts before I send?

Hi XXX, I really appreciate you looking after XXX on Wednesdays, but I wanted to mention something so that our relationship can remain positive moving forward.

A few comments about our parenting choices recently have left me feeling like I need to defend our decisions as parents. For example, comments about his diet like “babybels are the worst thing you can possibly give him” and “sweetcorn has no nutritional value”, comparisons around breastfeeding timelines, suggestions about offering him cool drinks when he’s asking for milk, and comments about car seats such as “he’ll have to forward face soon or he’ll feel sick / it won’t be good for his hips.”

We make our parenting decisions carefully based on current guidance and research, so I’d really appreciate it if you could avoid giving unsolicited advice or negative commentary about our choices going forward. Thank you.

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I’m bout to have afternoon independence there’s too many options of things to do!!!!!

What do i do about this situation because i’m genuinely at a loss?

so to make a super long story short, my husband and i are separated and basically roommates because it’s complicated financially and blah blah blah. i’ve been on birth control because i DO NOT want another baby we had 2u2(13m apart) and it was hell. the second baby was fully his fault(he admitted to getting me pregnant when i was drunk because he wanted a son but that’s another story) and i was very unhappy and still am because i just did not want this situation. my postpartum was horrible with my first and worse with my second. anyways i switched birth controls on wednesday and wasn’t thinking much of it. i had an unexpected 👅night👅 (not with him) early saturday morning (12/1am) and he pulled out but he definitely finished super quick (like 2min tops quick) and i worry he didn’t pull out soon enough. funny (not funny) enough my husband made a comment saturday around noon about me smelling like i was ovulating. i took a test and damn sure it was as positive as you can get. i’m kinda stressing now and i’m not sure what to do. my situation is complicated and while I’m not cheating it would definitely cause a lot of unnecessary drama if i was pregnant, especially with who the other guy is. it would complicate things with both our lives/families honestly. i’m worried because i genuinely didn’t think the birth control switch would mess with my hormones that quickly. i had mentioned a condom but the guy didn’t wanna get the special kind i need (i’m highly allergic to latex) and promised he just wouldn’t finish in me. it was super last minute and everything and we were both heavily intoxicated but i feel stupid. also we do kinda have a huge age gap (he’s 48 and i’m 23) so there’s that. anywaysssss i need advice please that’s nonjudgmental. i have a very hard relationship with my parents and i don’t have any friends really either. i’ve been isolated for a while.

Dad not agreeing to have son when I want to go for a weekend break.

Right, so this might be a long one. My son is 3 and me and his dad broke up nearly a year ago. It’s been up and down but I’ve done my best for it to stay civil for my son.
Anyway, I asked him about having his son for a long weekend as it’s my 30th this year. He agreed. He then said he was going on holiday for a full week and wanted to swap weekends over. I said that was fine (Makes sense why he agreed about my time away so easily)

This was a couple months ago…
Last night he decided to tell me that he will look after OUR son but everyday he loses from work, he will deduct from child maintenance?
So if he gets 220 a day and loses that, that’s going to be 4 weeks no payments.

Surly this is all about control right?

I literally was looking for the weekend that’s his weekend with my son anyway, so it’s only 1-2 days he would need off and believe me all the stuff I’ve helped him with, including sorting his flat, car and just making sure he’s all set up and he just continuously messes me about and tries to control everything.

Am I right or wrong? What can I do?
If I went to family court, would they sort out an agreement regarding holidays per year/the other parent agreeing to be fair. Like for example, one week per parent can go away and we have to accept it.
As well as the usual every other weekend stuff

Thank you, hope that makes sense! Any advice welcome x

Nursery or Childminder?

What are people's preference when going back to work?

My little boy will be a year old when I return to work.

I'd much rather a child minder whilst he is still so small but my partner would rather him be placed in a nursery and we just can't come to an agreement on this.

What are everyone's experiences on both and their pros and cons.

Thank you x