Going Back to Work

Yall…I’ve been crying everyday for a week straight! How am I supposed to go back to work and leave my baby??? I’ve been with her everyday for 4 months and now I just leave her??? I’m so sad and I want to hold her every second of the day and never let go.

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in our community

Do you know what a SAHDM is?

Just saw a video using this term, it had over 100k likes and hundreds of comments from women saying that they're SAHDMs.

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Child benefit query advice please

So my partner & I have separated but baby & I are still living with him for the time being until I sort out accommodation. I’m unable to work & currently on universal credit due to that. Because child benefit eligibility is based on an individual’s taxable income & he says he has £60,000 will dad be required to pay back the benefit, even though we are separated & now single ?

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Bsby daddy and best mate

So me and my baby’s dad split up around a month ago but we still live together so that our LO (9 weeks) still has both of us around we went away this last week to go see BDs family in Scotland (booked before the split) and he was all sweet with me and saying he wants to try and work it out between us so we can be a family. we got back last night and he goes out at midnight didn’t tell me when he was going and I fell asleep when I wake up at 6am he is still not here so I looked to see where he was and he was at my best mates house and I find out that he was in her bed.
This mate of mine as been around the whole pregnancy and was the first person to find out I was pregnant and was even there when my LO was born

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Do you sometimes feel like a bad mom just because you want a little time for yourself?

My baby is almost 7 months old, and sometimes I really crave some me-time. When I ask other moms about it, the usual response is: ‘I can’t imagine going anywhere without a baby.’ It makes me feel a bit strange, like am I bad for wanting to catch up with my old life, even just for 2 hours?

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Need a girl friend.

Both my besties moved as and I need a girl bestie to talk to. I work full time, started my own social media brand and I have 3 boys and 2 step daughters.

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