So me and my baby’s dad split up around a month ago but we still live together so that our LO (9 weeks) still has both of us around we went away this last week to go see BDs family in Scotland (booked before the split) and he was all sweet with me and saying he wants to try and work it out between us so we can be a family. we got back last night and he goes out at midnight didn’t tell me when he was going and I fell asleep when I wake up at 6am he is still not here so I looked to see where he was and he was at my best mates house and I find out that he was in her bed.
This mate of mine as been around the whole pregnancy and was the first person to find out I was pregnant and was even there when my LO was born
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How did the 2 even end up in the same house? Were they out together? Drunk together?

Whaaat, I would be pissed. You have probably told her about all the problems you have been going through with him and then you find out about this. She is now obviously the reason why your probably having those problems. You can't trust no one.

She is not your best mate and he need to move out. Never settle for 2nd best. It took me years to realise this but you should not give 2nd chances. If they need a 2nd chance they are not worth your time and energy. Your baby will be happier growing up with two parents who are independent of each other than growing up in a failed relationship.