Possible meet

I bumped into a mum a few weeks ago from a baby group I went to which has finished now and we arranged to try and meet up one day for a coffee I messaged her like weeks ago and she never responded and still hasn’t now shall I just leave it as clearly she isn’t interested.
I did sort of put myself out there when I met her which I don’t normally do so it was really out of my comfort zone as I suggested it and she was really up for it and now she has just ignored me 😩 it is a bit soul destroying really as these things always happen to me like I am never able to have mum friends in my life and honestly it’s just really hard for me am I doing something wrong or does anyone else have this same experience.

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You’re honestly not doing anything wrong. Making mum friends as an adult is strangely difficult and a lot of people are flaky with messages even when they seem keen at the time. Humans can raise children but apparently replying to a text is where the system collapses.

I’d leave it now though. If she hasn’t replied after weeks, that’s your answer sadly. But please don’t take it as something wrong with you. The fact you put yourself out there was actually brave and a really positive thing.

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