Is anyone else feeling less sexy/ less attractive to their partners? We haven’t had sex whilst pregnant because of previous miscarriages and now that the babies fully formed it freaks him out. We don’t properly make out now because he gets turned on so he doesn’t try but I’m missing the connection. It makes me feel unwanted. I feel like the dog gets more cuddles and attention.
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Are there way you can share intimacy without kissing and sex? My partner has been stroking my feet and giving me back rubs. Holding hands on cuddling on the sofa may be good alternative or making a point to have a 5 minute cuddle every night before bed before going to sleep. Its so hard but you are almost there x

I think if I hoped for it, he wouldn't realise it is what I was wanting so I do often tell him what I need. At bedtime we have a little cuddle which we add into our nighttime routine which has come a habit. Eveything else I do ask for and he understands that some time I can be more needy than others!