Help :(

My baby is 17 weeks / 4 months today. Since 9 weeks old he hasn’t had a night feed and was going to bed around 7ish, waking around 2-3am taking his dummy and going back to sleep until 6ish. He was teething Monday-Wednesday and got cold/flu symptoms with that and so started waking more in the night and needing feeds. (He is exclusively breastfed). This has continued and the last 2 nights have been waking every 1-2 hours and needing feeding to get back to sleep. I feel like a zombie. Wondering whether it could be the teething, the heat and needing more fluid or a regression.
Has anybody tried switching from a next to me crib to a big cot? Wondering whether to do this and then whether to have the cot in our room or to try him in his own room but I am hesitant to do that and not hear him / the monitor over his white noise machine. TIA xx

in our community

My partner sleeps in till 11am. We have a toddler together and he has a kid with someone else. When his kid is here he still sleeps in and makes me do all the work and it upsets me. I’m also sick and he doesn’t care.

Am I being unreasonable for being this upset?

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Bath time scaries

My newborn baby (5 weeks) hates the bath so much that it causes explosive poops 😭 I tried using a cloth over her to keep her warm, warming the room, and using a gentle baby shower head. She hates sponge bath/wash cloth baths as well. It makes me so sad to hear her cry like she’s being traumatized. Any recommendations would be appreciated! Also pls tell me it gets better ❤️‍🩹

My baby cried mid feed

I had him May 1st and recently (last few days) he will be mid drink and then get really mad and start crying or fussing. He’ll throw his back straight and then bring his legs to his belly and then kick….and then I’ll put my nipple back in his mouth and he’ll be fine and then get mad and cry again. And he’ll have my nipple in his mouth and then stretch it really long 💀 while keeping it in his gums. but he does this when being bottle fed as well. I don’t supply enough for him so we bottle feed him formula as well and he’ll be drinking and then he gets mad and just starts crying out of nowhere

Anyone know what may cause this fit? I was thinking he could be gassy so I burp him (my parents think he’s gassy or upset stomach), or he doesn’t want to eat but he shows signs he’s hungry….so I’m kind of stumped. I thought maybe over feeding. Anyone else had this happen?

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