Need words of encouragement to leave

I told my bf I’m pregnant, and I thought he’d be so happy since we’d been talking about having a baby forever. He was not. He wanted to break up, and kept talking about still being around for the kid, but not wanting to be with me, which felt weird. That was last week, and then today he left his phone on the bed and I looked and he was talking g to his ex. She was flipping out at him about my pregnancy, telling him I was faking it and he needs to leave. He was saying he can’t now because of the baby. I was really upset, and just felt sick to my stomach. I’ve caught them together dozens of times. I’m also upset he told her, because I haven’t even told my other child, family, or friends. It was our secret, me and him, and now she knows something personal about me I wasn’t ready to tell anyone. I decided I really do want to leave him. But he talks so pretty and gets in my head, so I always stay. I’ve even tried packing and leaving when he wasn’t home, but he always manages to get ahold of me. I need to leave, and I’m just feeling scared and alone. I don’t have anyone to talk to about it, because I don’t want anyone to know I’m pregnant. I do t understand why he can’t leave her. I don’t understand why she’s more important to him than his family.

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father’s day?

what gifts are we thinking this year? i can’t think of anything! i don’t want to just get the random b&m or supermarket crap cuz he would hate that. our daughter is not even 2 yet so sadly she can’t help out too much.

Making money

Moms, I am waiting for my first check at my new job and girl is broke 🙃. How are we making money to get by. - already do door dash, etc. it's not always the most reliable. I recently moved to Florida🌴

Looking for pregnant or ftm friends

I’m looking for currently pregnant friends or ftm friends so we can share our experiences. Also looking for friends that struggle with depression and anxiety so i don’t feel so alone.

Drunk partner

My partner came home drunk 12:30 other night and tried to have sex with me. I was asleep when he woke me I said no. Next thing I know I can feel a rocking in bed and turn around to him lying there masturbating. It’s made me feel really uncomfortable! I’ve raised it and he isn’t seeing anything wrong with it and blaming me saying I’m just trying to cause arguments all the time and that I’m boring. Made me feel like crap! How would anyone else feel?

Advice

How have people coped with partners returning to work after paternity leave? My partner goes back tomorrow but I’m so worried I’m not gonna manage on my own with baby🥺

mom gc

most of these mom gcs i end up in, i or others get ignored. lmaoo. i’ve noticed it’s always ONE person a group of girls dick ride… excuse my french. she can do no wrong in the group. they laugh at shit that’s not even funny but because it’s her it’s funny but let someone else come in the chat and say a joke that’s actually funny, no one talks or responds but as soon as “queen bee” speaks , everyone’s active and talking… it’s so odd i think i’m done with these “friend” gcs for moms. that’s why i barely have friends or want to make friends, everyone screams about how they want a group or genuine friends but when people try, yall ignore them !!! ITS WEIRD.