Finishing ⚠️‼️

SEX !! Question !!

Hey all please no judgement. I can’t finish even on my own I have a build up and then it’s gone. And I’m not sure why nothing changed Sex life is great just this part. ? Anyone had anything like this ?
I’m stuck.

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Women’s bodies change, hormones are disruptive, and your safety after birth needs to be relearned. Birth or C-sections are traumatic and your body could still be carrying tension. I started stretching slowly and while staying present in every muscle I felt in my body being activated and it had restored my connection to my body and I was able to enjoy sex again. I know it sounds not connected at all but I wish I knew this a long time ago.

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The book Come as you Are is a great read about women’s sexuality! Might help!

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Have you never been able to? Or is this new?

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Have you started any new medication?

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I can’t finish on certain SSRIs lol, I think it was Zoloft. idk if you’re on any medication but that definitely plays a role, as well as hormone fluctuation

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