i'm a young mum and it annoys me when older mums...
when they think its so easy to look after a baby and yet their situation is so much worse than yours 'financially, emotionally and physically', i'm a young mum (early 20's) but my baby was planned we were in a good place financially and i knew i would have full support from my partner whether its with housework or the baby whilst hes also working and i am a sahm. but a older family member is having a baby soon and when i explained that yes it would be hard and try to give advice and tell her she needs a village as her partner is not the helpful kind and is unemployed, she acts so ignorant i honestly do not wish her any harm and have never but i thought the advice would be appreciated coming from someone who has gone through pregnancy and postpartum however she acts completely unfazed, they have no money and live by borrowing money that they never return. I have never been rude nor arogant but simply gave advice and warnings and she just acted like i was the problem and had no idea and a sh*t mum. and that she would be the perfect mum.
JUST BECAUSE SHES OLDER DOESNT MAKE HER WISER!
