I love being a mama, but I’m struggling too
I often struggle with the contradiction of being so in love with motherhood but also feeling like I’m drowning. My baby is 10 months old and is the most incredible thing ever, and I love being a SAHM but we don’t have a lot of support and my husband works long hours away from me and baby, and I honestly feel like my old self is completely gone. I’ve asked friends and family around me for support, but most of them just want to come over and hold the baby for a pic before leaving again. I’ve asked my husband if he can cut back on hours and he says we can’t from a financial point of view (he makes good money but is usually gone for 12 hours a day). I don’t want to use daycare or go back to work but I also don’t know how to remember who I used to be, and get support… Any advice?
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I really struggled at the 9-10 month mark but trust me once little one turns more toddler and independent around 1.5 years or so, you suddenly feel a bit more like you as a mum rather than “mum-mum” if that makes sense x
Being a mum is difficult. It’s relentless. My partner works long hours as well. However, I prefer that, as he kills naps and causes mess in the house.
I’m definitely going back to work and leaving my baby in day care on September for my own sanity. Also, I’m sure both baby and myself are growing bored at home together. He definitely needs stimulation from other children his own age now.
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