Am I wrong?

Here are my thoughts: you are the role model for your child. If someone were to disrespect your child and break their trust when they’re older, you’d want them to cut ties with that person, right? Being a single mom is hard but it’s even harder being in the same house with someone you resent. Cut ties, just like you’d want your child to do if they were disrespected by a partner or friend. It will be hard at first, but you will get into the flow of things sooner than you think. It will be okay. Alwayssss trust your gut.

It’s a huge red flag that the person who disrespected you is getting upset with YOU instead of taking accountability for themselves. Unless you’re bringing it up constantly, then it would be a different story.

It’s hard because he has no where to go I basically paid for everything he just pays the rent now that I’m on unpaid maternity leave, I’ve told him to leave but I’m going through therapy for postpartum depression and he said he’d take me to court for custody if I don’t let him so our baby when he wants and said I’m going to make him live in a car if I do this but what he did wasn’t just any betrayal I was literally ill on the toilet and he left our newborn on our bed to take my female cousin home that he brought to our house to “help out” when I said I’d get her an uber I needed his help he said no he couldn’t do that to her it’s wrong and then he chilled with her and smoked while I was struggling at home waiting till late at night for him to come back and help me