HELPING TO STOP BRESTFEEDING.

I am desperate for help. I am so ready to stop feeding my two year old who is feeding from me all the time. In the night it’s constant.
Can anyone help?! Or have good tips?
I’m over being touched all the time and want to sleep

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Baby went underwater

Tonight I asked my husband if he would rather change the sheets on the bed, or give our 8 week old baby a bath. He chose the bath (which I normally do). I was a little nervous as he had never bathed him alone before (just watched me do it), but trusted they’d be fine. 4 minutes into the bath I hear my baby screaming upstairs. I was immediately worried since he loves his baths. I ran upstairs and my husband is holding him horizontal and smacking his back. He said he slipped in his tub and went underwater. I know it was an accident, but I’m honestly furious. It was a no-soap night, so it was just water, but obvs dirty water. We clean him well during diaper changes, but this boy poops a LOT. And I know when my husband changes him he’s not as thorough as me.

I’m worried about a few things;

1. Water in his lungs (and secondary drowning due to aspiration)
2. Bacterial infection from ingesting dirty bath water
3. Ear infection

Should I take him to the emergency room?

If this has ever happened to you please comment with your experience and if your baby was ok.

Advice needed from co-sleeping mothers with toddlers

My son is 1 and half years old I have co-slept since day one he used to fall asleep pretty easy but the last 2 months have been hell it's like world war 3 every night to try to even get him to lay down let alone go to sleep I'm not sure what is going on or if I'm doing something wrong or I need to change he's bedtime routine or if he needs to go in he's now cot now I'm at my wits end any advice would be amazing.

I let him watch TV while having he's milk then we turn the tv off and wind down he used to just fall asleep no problem but the last 2 months he is refusing to lay down even when he's very tried I'm having to tell him off multiple times for him to listen after maybe a hour or 2 he will go to sleep but then I feel like the worlds worst parent because I'm having to tell him off its awful. 🥲

How was your libido postpartum? Mine is 0.

I rarely have the desire (or energy) for sex anymore, and my partner does. I could wake him up from his death and he’d be willing to go at it, anytime, any place. I have the urge sometimes but most of the time I’m so exhausted / tapped out / drained, I just don’t have the capacity for sex. We used to be at it like rabbits, and now I barely even want affection from him.

Does anyone relate?

(For context, we have 2 under 2, our relationship is strained (naturally under the pressure of young children so close together), I am exclusively breastfeeding our youngest and am 4 months postpartum.)

Car seat arrangement

If you have a 3.5 year old and an infant, who sits behind the driver?
(Both car seats are rear-facing)

Have you ever shouted at your child?

Out of anger/ frustration / overwhelm

Taking colostrum to the hospital

Mummas, those that have harvested colostrum in prep for baby, how are we taking it and keeping it safe in the hospital, I have over 30ml rn, and can go on for at least another week and few days before my csection, how are we transporting and keeping it safe for baby?