Bank transfer reference messages (UK)

Anyone else’s BD blocked on everything but has your bank details and uses it to send money with messages in the payment reference? Is there anything I can do to stop it?

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in our community

What would you say is a normal amount to spend on child for Christmas and birthday ?

This is a judgement free space however I have came to the conclusion that I need to change my spending habits so want to get an average spend so I can use that as my limit 💕

Currently I do £2500 for each of them

Yes we go on holiday and she has money in put in her savings 🙂

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Sad 🥺💔

What to do when you are an immigrant with a tourist visa that is inspired by 3 months pregnant

Of 3 months is abandoned by whom you were totally financially dependent, who now says that you are not the father of the baby and our baby was planned, last Monday my ex-boyfriend assaulted me and opened my head I called the ambulance and he was arrested but it was not my intention he would go to jail I just wanted to know if everything was okay with me and the baby, he paid bail and was released and now he can’t get close to me and said he won’t pay my bills anymore and I don’t work I’m totally dependent on him, he also said that this child is not his now I’m here in this apartment that I have to deliver on the 8th because he cancelled the contract, I can’t go back to Brazil because I wouldn’t be able to stay there pregnant without working, now I’m here without knowing what to do but I don’t want to ask for help from the government because I would have to

It’s so hard to be me 😭😭😭😭 everything was so beautiful 1 week ago and now it seems like a nightmare.

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Lonely need friends

I’m lonely and need some genuine friends ☀️🤞🏻🙂‍↔️❤️❤️

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Play groups

When did you start taking your baby to play groups? How old were they?
I want to take my 2 month old baby girl to an indoor play group but I’m worried she may get sick (lucky she hasn’t been sick yet). Any advice or tips are appreciated!

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Maternity pay

Iv left my maternity form
so late. I only sent my form off on Friday. How long is it roughly until I would get a payment? From the state not an employer as I’m
Self employed. Thanks!

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