If someone got pregnant and after taking the test the man said he didn't want to have the baby but you continued the pregnancy

From the day forward he still had sex with you but brought nothing for the child, you went into labour and he didn't attend the birth, the baby is born and still hasn't come to see you who is at fault? Should men have a choice in keeping a child? Should she stop complaining because she made the choice to have the child? Are both at fault and why?
PS you was not in a relationship you was just sleeping together then you fell pregnant

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30 hours free childcare - not working

Could anyone offer advice? I put my little one into nursery before returning to work. She's now one and goes three days a week. I've handed my notice into my work as they've made my life so so difficult. I'm trying to find another job however I feel it's unlikely I'll get another job before I have to reconfirm my code. Has that happened to anyone? It says on Google there is a grace period. I will finish working my notice a month before the reconfiguration is up. Will they give me 3 more months?

If you was stuck in a pickle and all of your bills hit you all at once and you been missing hours at work which bill is more important to be paid especially if you are already behind
( except on rent ) which one would you make sure is paid

On your next payday which one would you make sure is paid FIRST. I'm asking because I'm in this exact situation and idk what to do...

Diastiasis Recti Exercises

Hey moms I’m a c section mom struggling with apron belly & DR. I recently realised simple exercise can help to improve our core muscles strength just 30minutes a day ! Once your core muscles are strong you can work on tightening your belly !
Please DM me if you want an exercise chart for DR which you can start once cleared by your gynecologist.

I feel so alone

My baby is everything to me, i love him so so much but im so lonely, I don’t have any friends that relate, or even any friends at all, Ive always had a hard time making friends and became harder once i got pregnant, my husband’s life didn’t stop or change once baby was born, but mine did and i feel so alone, he doesn’t understand what i feel, and feel like he never will fully understand how lonely motherhood, postpartum can be

Loneliness is kicking me

I am in my 3rd trimester and dealing with the worst pregnancy. I lost a lot of my friends this year due to moving. I am not good at being alone all the time. Until baby gets here I am so isolated and not sure how to combat this loneliness. Please let me know I’m not alone, and if anyone wants a friend/supporter let me know!!!!

Job ideas /suggestions

I need a job that isn't teaching. I am un the UK (Yorkshire)

I don't want to work with kids I don't think anymore. I am utterly exhausted holding 30 kids feelings and manging them, including my own then coming home and doing the same for my kids. I feel like my kids get the sh*t part of me. The mum that's kmackered

That said, teaching pays well. I get all school holidays. I'm part time (unicorn job in teaching). I work in a lovely school. I love teaching , I'm just exhausted.

I have no idea what to do or where o look or what move to make.

I often think I'd like working in a museum, you know where they do workshops with kids. I like reading and writing. I'm good with projects and managing my own time. I've been SLT so experience line managing people.

Does anyone have any suggestions or words of advice ? Thank you