Sexual or not?

Growing up when my mum would
Go out with her mates she would say she was going out to play… I now say to my friends ‘do you wanna come out to play’… i said It to
My 2 close guy mates and they’ve told me that people say that in a sexual manor ?! That’s not how I mean it and no one has ever said anything to me but them 🫪

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I think it’s different saying it to a girl friend vs guy friend

“Mums gen” is different, the sayings they use. It was a different era. Even now we’re mums we’ll have sayings that sound natural to us but will have a totally different meaning to our kids. It’s just how language evolves and changes. To me it sounds like flirting yes so sounds sexual but to your mum prolly not

Idk I don’t think asking friends to “come out to play” is sexual sounding, saying “come play with me” is definitely sexual sounding LOL

Maybe switch it up, and say “wanna have a playdate” lmfao

I had no clue lol. So my mum has 4 kids and would say it when she got a ‘break’…. I say it to my closest circle only but now I won’t be HAHA

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If someone got pregnant and after taking the test the man said he didn't want to have the baby but you continued the pregnancy

From the day forward he still had sex with you but brought nothing for the child, you went into labour and he didn't attend the birth, the baby is born and still hasn't come to see you who is at fault? Should men have a choice in keeping a child? Should she stop complaining because she made the choice to have the child? Are both at fault and why?
PS you was not in a relationship you was just sleeping together then you fell pregnant

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Sexual or not?

Growing up when my mum would
Go out with her mates she would say she was going out to play… I now say to my friends ‘do you wanna come out to play’… i said It to
My 2 close guy mates and they’ve told me that people say that in a sexual manor ?! That’s not how I mean it and no one has ever said anything to me but them 🫪

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I feel so alone

My baby is everything to me, i love him so so much but im so lonely, I don’t have any friends that relate, or even any friends at all, Ive always had a hard time making friends and became harder once i got pregnant, my husband’s life didn’t stop or change once baby was born, but mine did and i feel so alone, he doesn’t understand what i feel, and feel like he never will fully understand how lonely motherhood, postpartum can be

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Lonely

Feeling very lonely today. My daughter is 20 months old and I still don’t really have any mum friends. We did the nct classes hoping I’d make at least 1 good friend and don’t get me wrong they’re all lovely but I never really became close with any of them.

Just really feeling low about being on my own all the time

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Telling work

I am 15 weeks and I want to tell work because I am hoping they will go a bit easier on me. I work in finance and it can be quite hectic at the best of times. Has anyone experienced their work being more lenient after telling them? I was advised that I should wait til 20 weeks but the work is starting to pile up.

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Anyone else feel a bit stuck in a rut?

I'm struggling at the moment with the juggle of naps, meals, bottles, & keeping my twins entertained. I feel like I struggle to leave the house between all of this and when I do I'm at a bit of a loss of where to go. I feel like the babies are no longer happy just sitting in their pram and doing activities like shopping etc. They just want to be out crawling and exploring, but aren't big enough for things like soft play etc yet. Is it just me?! What am I missing? 🫠

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If someone got pregnant and after taking the test the man said he didn't want to have the baby but you continued the pregnancy

Sexual or not?

I feel so alone

Lonely

Telling work

Anyone else feel a bit stuck in a rut?