Am I the problem or is she a problem?

I think I have to fight my son, father mother so basically I asked his sister can she ask her mother? Can I get the car seat? This was the message that I received from My Baby Daddy Mother and I’m a show the rest at the bottom

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Lawd the ghetto. Why is she talking to you like this? Over a car seat? How much drama is there that this is even necessary. She sounds like the boy moms they warn you about and I have 0 context

Who originally purchased the car seat? Is this your only car seat?

If you bought the car seat, I would just contact the police about it since she has a issue and Wants to say crazy stuff to you.

Call the police. Then file for sole custody. Show these messages to the judge. Make sure that she is marked an unsafe person for your child to be around.

Beat her ass😭

BEAT HER MF ASS

I wouldn't communicate with these people at all. Don't bring negativity to your life. Does he even take care of his child? His mom is on your phone saying fuck that kid

Man… you need back up ?! This is boiling my blood. Im sorry you are dealing with these miserable ass people. I hope your son never sees them again.

This is diabolical, she’s in love with her son

Yall gotta understand she can’t fight these people for the car seat even tho his momma askin for a 2 piece and a Popeyes dry ass biscuit to her throat she gotta show this to the court cuz if his momma lose she would get the idea of taking this to court bein a sore loser she is she just gotta stick it out till she gets what she deserve from this nigga and his momma thru court

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Child maintenance let's talk!

My sons dad is granted to pay 115.68 each week going through child maintenance but we decided between us to go private and direct which he then went to 70 pounds I did agree as something is better than nothing.
I'm that reasonable when special occasions around the corner I don't expect any payments.
Today his contacted me saying he wants to lower it another 20 pounds which would leave me with 50 pounds each week which by the way I do use it for every day essentials like shopping and what the child needs.
I can't be only one that finds it cheeky this guy is trying to lower it more than 50% than it should be.
From115.68
Down to 70
Now wanting to pay 50
Each week he pocket 65.68
Do I go back through the child maintenance services or simply try stand on my boundaries and let him know I do think his taking the piss a little.
Child maintenance is only so high because he has 1 over night stay every 1 -2 weeks .
Which again he was granted weekends and never stuck to them either ..
I have mentioned if child maintenance is gonna lower he needs to be having more contact in that sense as that's how it would calculate on the services also