What does your husband do for work

My husband is currently a UPS driver and while it’s good money he is never home to see us or help. We’re thinking about growing our family so he’s thinking of looking for a career that at least gets him home to have dinner as a family. So my question is for the moms who are fully stay at home and rely on husbands income.

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my fiance does concrete and construction. the work is hard and the days are long but he’s home by 6 every night and gets weekends and holidays off. where we live, he gets the winter “laid off” and collects partial unemployment as he does snow removal when needed with weather.

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My husband is a lead carpenter, he is gone from about 5 am to about 6 pm (5 pm on a short day) so he is always home in time for dinner.

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My husband is in the military (army national guard) he is on active duty orders and works M-F 7/8am-3pm

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My husband is a news cameraman so he does 50-80 hour weeks and regularly goes away for weeks/months on end depending on events. It’s hard work and it’s dangerous but it’s good pay and he loves it.

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He manages the IT side of infrastructure planning and facilites at a major university. He works from home 3 days out of the week. Usually he is home by 5pm. Weekends and celebrated holidays at the university he is usually home unless something breaks. He only has an associates degree and an additional certificate but also has a few years in which is why is was able to move up to management.

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Mines is a Truck driver never home

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My husband it’s manager at Mercedes Benz. He is gone from 7 am to 6 pm.
He is always tired but it’s good money. I would like to back to work when my children are in school, I’m a nurse

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Mine is a farmer! Does both livestock and arable! I’m a harvest widow during the summer and autumn and spring months!

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My husband does commercial hvac. Typically gone 6am-4pm.

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My husband is a HGV driver and does nights

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My husband is a truck driver, but we just moved so now, he leaves on Monday afternoon and doesn't come back until Saturday morning.. he used to be ~8-6, home every night but that's not a possibility now with how rural we live.

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MIL wants regular contact and once a week just my son and her

hey girlies! i wondered if anyone has been in a similar or is in a similar position to me.

i do not get along with MIL at all, when i was pregnant she made a lot of possessive remarks about my son and i brushed them off as during this time we were quite close but as soon as i gave birth to my son she started becoming way too much which broke the relationship between us.

she’d always make me feel like i wasn’t doing anything right when it came to my son, she also would take my son and say “you’ll love me more than your mum” just remarks that were madd to say to a mother who is postpartum.

there’s a whole lot more but we’d be here for days if i listed everything this woman said and did to me.

luckily we moved away (we were initially
living with her) but now she keeps begging my man to have my son once a week and i really don’t want my son around her especially one on one.

with how she acted when we was living with her and the things she’s said to me and behind my back i don’t trust her with my son. even though he’s too young to understand what she’s saying the thought of her sprouting negativity about me or playing mum with my son makes me feel uncomfortable.

i’ve managed to play the im breastfeeding so he can’t be away from me card but my man is starting to get persistent which is leading to arguments.

he knows how i feel about his mum and he knows all the things she’s said to me during the period we lived with her but he just keeps saying that’s still his mum and my sons grandma.

i understand that but she’s too obsessed with my son and it’s not right that she thinks it’s acceptable to talk down on me. she has no respect and i don’t want to be around her at all.

she made the first months of me being a mum so miserable, made me question myself a lot and just made me feel so shitty.

when i confronted my mans mum and his sister (his sister was also trying to play mum with my son) about the way they spoke to me and made me feel they didn’t own up or apologise and instead made it seem like it wasn’t that deep.

i just don’t know how i can get through to my man , i’ve expressed so many times how i feel and he just isn’t hearing it.

my man works very long hours so he doesn’t get back from work until around 9pm and he’s recently expressed that he will start getting his mum to reach out to me about our son.

she hasn’t yet messaged me but i plan to not reply 😭

i just don’t know how i can get through to my man. i don’t want to even do supervised visits because it will just be me and her and when we’re alone she uses that chance to start with her remarks.

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What does your husband do for work

My husband is currently a UPS driver and while it’s good money he is never home to see us or help. We’re thinking about growing our family so he’s thinking of looking for a career that at least gets him home to have dinner as a family. So my question is for the moms who are fully stay at home and rely on husbands income.

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