Breastfeeding while pregnant

Hey ladies. Did anyone here breastfeed while pregnant? I'm about 21 weeks and my nipples are sooo sore. I have never had an issue with sore nipples in 15 months of EBF. Just wondering if this is normal or whether it's to do with my little one having a few teeth.

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Would you be offended by this or am I overly sensitive?

In conversation with my husband talking about our 2nd being our last baby. I said I think this might be it for me as it has really taken its toll on me physically. My husband then commented that maybe it's because this time around I was more unhealthy before conception than I was with my first. My husband is not the father of my first and wasn't around me back then when I was with a previous partner. I am quite conscious that I am the biggest I have ever been and I am struggling. I think this felt like a kick whilst I am down I am only 6 months postpartum.

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My baby’s dad has been adding an extra half scoop to his formula bottles without me knowing, please I am really worried. Will he be ok? I read online it can cause kidney damage he is 1 week old.

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My baby has started sleeping through the night but I still like to do a pump in the middle of the night to protect my supply. I can’t seem to wake up in the middle of the night despite my alarm. Any tips?

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I don't know where to begin but I feel like I'm drowning. Before I say anything else, of course I am safe. My son is 7 months old and he is a very energetic happy boy, but I have never felt the same since before I was pregnant.

I am in that stage of postpartum where I don't know who I am and I don't recognise myself. I have tried therapy and it just wasn't helping me. The endless nights of watching your partner go to bed but knowing that the bottles have to be washed and the laundry needs to be done, so you've got to pick the priority and that's your child's stuff. There are nights that I don't go to bed until 1 a.m. and days without showers. Keep in mind I am a uni student as well.

I'm at this point in motherhood where I feel so trapped. I've been told to go to mothers' groups but just the thought of getting out of the house is so incredibly hard. I've reached out to online mothers' groups and tried to make friends but it hasn't really worked.

I don't know how many other mums feel like this, where they just stare at their baby monitor every night, knowing that it's going to be Groundhog Day the next day. Feeling trapped inside their home with a young one, putting all of your priority into them but knowing that the time limit on their nap is so short that nothing can be done anyway.

It's a bit of a raw and real post but this is what stage of motherhood I am in. I would say I'm not enjoying it and I'm not thriving and I don't have my village. If any other mums feel like this, I would encourage you to comment. I hope I'm not the only one.

Nearly 6 months and still waking every 1-2 hours overnight. I’M TIRED

We have taken a side off of his cot and attached it to our bed and my baby sleeps there. He still wakes every 1-2 hours for a feed (he sometimes will do a random 2.5 hour stretch if we’re lucky). I have to feed him (EBF) every time he wakes or he kicks off and screams and screams and screams (my parter has tried to settle him but he cries so much he coughs and starts to choke on his saliva 😢). I’ve tried other ways to settle him, occasionally tapping his head will work (for maybe 1 wake).

I’m following wake windows, I keep him stimulated during the day, take him out for walks, swimming, baby classes etc. He sleeps a ‘normal’ amount of time for his naps. We’ve got blackout blinds, make sure the room is a good temperature, stick to the same bedtime routine. I feed him in his cot, he then rolls onto his tummy and goes to sleep.

I don’t know what I’m doing wrong 😩 I feel maybe he’s started to reverse feed? As in he gets most of his calories overnight instead of during the day. I try to offer him the breast as much as possible but he will only take one breast and be done after 5 minutes whereas he can stay on my breast overnight for 15 mins +. I’ve read I need to stop feeds overnight so he’s hungry in the day time but I can’t do that as he screams so badly!

Any advice / tips / reassurance would be great! Thank you x

I don’t understand!

I don’t understand breastfeeding like… at all…
I have so many questions! 😭

If I wanted to breast feed and express feed, how do I know how much expressed milk to give my baby?

Is there a routine when it comes to breastfeeding, so I’d know when she’s ready for a bottle if I wanted to give her expressed milk instead?? The same way formula fed babies have a schedule? I’ve heard you just whip out a boob whenever baby is hungry and that there isn’t a set routine like there is with formula but idk how true that is!

Do I have to wake up and express my milk in the night if dad is doing an expressed bottle feed so that my supply keeps up? I’ve heard that before.

What about formula and breast feeding, how does that work? I know some people do a mixture of breast and formula feeding where they use formula for the night feeds and breast through the day. That sounds like something I’d want to try out.