Hi

Looking for my bestie Those who believe in long-distance friendship

in our community

Super high sex drive

I’m nearly 4 months PP and my sex drive has come back with a vengeance my husband can’t even walk near me without me getting excited and even after the deed I want to do it straight away again I haven’t been like this in 6 years (we have 2 children) is it just me or does it happen after a baby? I’m loving it but I’m just intrigued if it’s just me lol.

Mama without a gym - workout advice for tone and strength

Hi ladies! I used to be a big gym girl, a climber and a runner but since kids I have zero access to a gym (no childcare) and not much time to myself.

I was 14st after baby 2 but have gotten down to 9st 9lbs over the last year but it’s time to get toned AF. I have little muscle strength left but I can see the tone right there under the surface, I want my abs and arms back! My goal is a bikini. I have never owned one and it’s time at 35 I had the confidence to finally wear one 👙

Any at home workouts you’d recommend for a busy mum who can’t go running anymore? I need to start at the beginning I think and build my stamina back up. I have a few dumbbells and a mat in terms of equipment.

am i tripping?

so i met my bd when i was 17, he was 44. at the time i recently moved to the states and i was living with my grandma and we weren’t the best of friends anyways i met him and he told me i could live with him, two months later on my 18th birthday i got pregnant. fast forward now, i found out he has 3 other kids by 3 other women who he HID from me. If I speak to any of my family members he starts an argument and threatens to kick me out. i’m also an immigrant so he threatens not to marry me so i get my papers. So he works on the weekend, everytime he works i have his 5 year old, he was granted custody of him because the mother was abusing substances. i am now 19 and its sad to say but if i wanted a 5 year old kid i would’ve had one. HES NOT IN SCHOOL BTW. So last night i told him i can’t babysit one weekend because my family and i want to do a little get together, he starts arguing that i should take HIS child. I don’t think that’s my responsibility, i am entitled to my child and still living my life. So because of that he threatened to stop proving, now i’m considering to go to the shelter and start brand new. what are your options? please tell me if im wrong

Heartbroken.

Literally want to throw up.
I realized many hours later that I left my wallet at the store. $400 cash, every debit / credit card. All my health insurances cards / prescription cards and kids. All our social security cards. License etc. I’ve been crying all night.

Do we go for Junior ISA?

My baby girl is 2 now, and I’m 30 weeks pregnant with another girl..

Family and friends for birthdays and special occasions send monies instead of buying gifts. I would like to put all that money together somewhere in the account and save it for her but I have no idea what to go for. There’s so much out there. I feel closest to Junior ISA, but so many providers and investing combinations it’s overwhelming how not informed and financially educated I am at this point ☹️☹️

What do you guys do? Any advice will help

Thanks

Visas are Stupid

For pre-contex
My husband and I are long distance relationship as we met on a game
I live in the UK, and he lives in the US

Originally, we agreed I would move to the US because where he is specifically benefits me and him a lot, economy, housing, big family and support system...etc

We agreed to have a child prior to moving before UK health care SO taken advantage on that plus, saves us money for visa...etc

We knew having this child would still be possible for our plans, but we are just going to be slower, that's all.

Then I ended pregnant again semi planned.

Now thinking about we both agreed best for him he to come to the UK. As the UK benefits the kids more than us.

So we plan on him coming to UK save up several years down the line to then move to the US with all the money especially due to conversion on money
Example £25=$34 roughly

NOW for the Vent!
I'm so frustrated how the systems work and the difference between the US and UK

US only cost $1500 in segments and roughly takes 1yr to process
And simple task and requirements

UK on the other hand....fml
My husband have to do the application and provide evidence

I have to
•Proof UK citizenship
•Eligible Housing as in I can accommodate him
•have a £29k annum salary, but luckily, I'm except for it due to disability benefits

One Amazing thing is it only takes 12WEEKS!! To process and all

Now the thing that peed me off
The payment unlike the US
It have to payed in one sum
£2000+ application fee
And £3100 health surcharge fee

Like that's nearly $7k

Like how the hell me and him meant to get that sum!?

If it was just me and him, I wouldn't mind the wait and grind

BUT because our daughter is 1 in october and due in November, is one of those the sooner we get the money the sooner he can be here as a family and as present father without the back and forths visits to the US for us.

My mother is willing to help towards it which is sweet but I feel guilty as this is my responsibility and my Husband's but I'm just so stressed about it all

I know it will happen eventually amd things will be okay....but I just wish I could been sooner🫠

Hi

Trending