Teething

My son is 10 months, 8 months corrected. He just got his second tooth and now it looks like his top teeth is coming in. I gave him Tylenol but it’s not helping. He keeps crying even wakes out of his sleep screaming. Please help.

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Feel free to confirm with your pediatrician but Tylenol is only a pain and fever reducer, not an anti-inflammatory. Motrin (ibuprofen) works better for teething because it addresses the inflammation causing the pain. I would also recommend taking your little one into the doctor if the Tylenol isn't helping at all on the off chance something else is going on like an ear infection.

If you're looking for something right away you could take a clean wash cloth and get it damp with cold drinking water and let him chew on it.

I used a lot of spiffies (on amazon) that's what my daughter's dentist recommended. You use them to massage the gums.

If he's started solids, you could also do the white end of a green onion (be sure to supervise). I've not been able to try this myself, but I've heard wonderful things.
They also make teething crackers you can get, but sometimes they're a little expensive.

My daughter is 10 months old, and she has 8 teeth with a 9th coming in, so I know this struggle well. Hang in there it'll pass...and then more teeth will come 😂

My daughter is also 10 months and 8 months adjusted! Her pediatrician said she’s allowed to have ibuprofen now instead of just Tylenol. Which has helped.

You can buy teethers that come with water inside and put them in the refrigerator and after they are cold you give them to him to bite them it also helps a lot to give him a gentle massage with your cold finger that calms them down a lot

I know how frustrating it is, you know, a couple of months ago, my baby’s teeth came out earlier

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