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Vent About Your Husband/Boyfriend Issues

am i in the wrong?

i breastfeed our baby she’s 8 months old, she sleeps terribly my husband works and i stay home he works long shifts but i handle all the nights since she was born, because he gets cranky and mean when he doesn’t sleep. i haven’t had a normal 6-8 hour stretch of sleep in 8 months but i still don’t ask him to take the night with the baby. he always points the finger at me saying she’s not sleeping because of something im doing, said it was because im drinking coffee so i stopped for a month 3 separate times still never slept through the night then he would say i need to relax because the baby can feel my stress and anxiety today he sent me some stupid reel about background screen time if i go on my phone it’s after she is asleep already because i have to pat her back til she goes down. i told him how i felt about how he always says it’s my fault and it turned into a full blown argument he thinks that because he goes to work he doesn’t need to help with the baby. am i wrong for needing help with her at night? i handle all cleaning cooking everything like that. he goes to work and he plays with the baby when he gets home then goes outside to play xbox.