What do I do ?..

I’m with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years we have a son and I have 2 daughters from previous relationship. We moved in together we have a house but I’ve caught him cheating online texting females and calling them babe and telling them what he likes about them and getting to know them like he’s single. Idk what to do, I found out the first time while pregnant and he stopped well.. I thought he did I found out tonight he’s been messaging her on and off for months and she’s pushing him away ofc I told her he was in a relationship and I was pregnant at the time. He’s also messaged other females and adds them. I’m just so numb at this point. I left my section 8 housing for him and I’d have to get back on the waitlist for another and I can’t work without child care which cost a lot and I’ve tried workforce and they aren’t able to watch the kids while I work they have to be in line while I work which won’t work. I’m just stuck at this point.. baby is 10 months my girls are 8 & 4.

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If he is physically not a harm to you/the children I would play stupid while you put yourself back on a waitlist and start banking the money he gives you so that you have some starting ground when you leave. It’s incredibly hard when you are financially dependent on someone wishing you the best of luck!

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