Looking for a bestie!

Hey everyone my names Kayle! I’m 27 tomorrow with a 5 year old daughter and am looking for some mom friends! I love reading. I’m antisocial and a bit awkward when first getting to know someone but once I warm up I don’t shut up lol. I’m a full time working mom so I might not reply quick! If anyone’s interested please feel free to message me! I would love to get to know someone new moms and make some new mom friends!

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Would you describe yourself as..

Racist?
Obviously this is an anonymous poll so I wonder if anyone thinks of themselves as this? I’ve heard a lot of “I’m not racist but” then an obviously racist remark being said and wonder if people genuinely believe the first line they’ve just said. This is not to start an argument in the comments section…it’s I guess a fairly straight forward question.

Break up or forgive?!

I just turned 8 months pregnant and I found out my baby daddy is on hinge.
He said he only went there because we had a little argument the day before and said he didn’t do anything.
Plus he had been texting other girls on instagram too!
He keeps saying sorry but honestly I don’t believe him no more, some of my friends say that I’m being to emotional because of my hormones. Honestly idk what to do!!! Mind this is the third time he messes up!🙄🙄
Should I break up with him or just forgive him???

Help me

I recently discovered that my husband was cheating on me during my pregnancy and continued the affair after our baby was born. During the pregnancy he was cold, distant, and repeatedly told me he was “frustrated.” A few days after I gave birth, he told me he wasn’t happy and didn’t feel anything for me. I was heartbroken and scared.

I stayed with my parents for a few days, but he didn’t want me to return home quickly. When I eventually came back, I found messages confirming the affair. When I told my parents, they said they couldn’t help me and were more worried about social status than my wellbeing.

When I confronted my husband, he blamed me. He said it was my fault for not keeping him happy, that I should have expected it, and that he had done nothing wrong. He has shown no remorse, no apology, and he is still in contact with the other woman, who works with him and whom I knew professionally.

I feel trapped. I have no financial stability, no support from my family, and nowhere to go with my baby. Currently on maternity leave, I am worried if i go for a full time job then how will I look after my baby. All of my earnings have been invested into our property assets. I earn a basic wage, while he is carrying a significant amount of personal debt. However, he does have a stable job with a strong salary

I am trying to understand my options and find a way forward, but right now I feel overwhelmed and alone.

Do you struggle with empathy ?

I feel like I really struggle having empathy for people, all I hear is aaa im a victim aaa im like this cos of this. I can really sympathise for people but I guess where I had it so tough growing up and into adulthood that I just get on with things yes it’s hard but I don’t ever use it as a excuse I use it as a reason to be better . I can’t stand weak people I guess that’s my problem! Does anyone relate or have any insight into this behaviour as I feel awful that I can’t give better advice other than suck it up be strong you can get through any thing !! 🙈