Anyone else feel like they’re drowning..

I feel like this very much and at least my husband does the cooking. But literally everything else is me at the moment and he also makes a huge mess when cooking but I'm still so grateful he does. I'm trying to do everything with the least amount of things possible so it's easy to tidy but still it's like fighting the ocean. I was hoping it would be sunny enough that the washing could dry quickly but 🙃

Yes, right there with you, all of the things you said plus Ive got a 3 year old too so tantrums, sorting school stuff, nursery things, clubs and helping my family. Some days I cant even look at the things that need doing. Time to myself which is nearly never consists of showering, eating, sleeping or getting the essential cleaning done. I feel overwhelmed too so you arent alone. Sometimes it really hard, just know you are doing a great job and dont sweat the small stuff. Yes throw more stuff, I had a massive clear out, less stuff helps 🙂

Things I've learnt now I have a baby and a toddler (I struggled with just a baby!)
1) slow cooker is your friend. Throw it in, it does it's thing. Then you can mush it up for baby
2) weaning doesn't have to be hard. My first wasn't interested in food and then I felt like a failure when he didn't want what I felt like I'd slaved to make. Second is a foodie but her dinner? Dairylee triangle, three sticks courgette (pre cooked Thursday and just warmed) two strawberries, 1/4 nectarine and two rice cakes.
3) stick baby in highchair with a stick on toy whilst you hang up laundry. Otherwise I've found little and often helps. If clothes just have drool on them I give them a quick 14 minutes cycle and hang them out then it physiologically helps keeping the washing bin more empty! Otherwise washing us insane here too as I have a toddler who is potty training.
4) you don't have to go out everyday. If you need to stay in and do some bits then do
5) I have a cleaner who comes every 3 weeks and I feel that's a big reset.