Pregnancy postpartum

1 1/2 months PP — I’ll be 2 months PP July 2nd. I’ll be real honest lol, My husband and I have had sex about 5 times since I got cleared at my 6 week check up. Obviously we missed each other intimately. Unprotected, no condoms or anything. Just pull out method. Of course my husband is like any other man with the “I know when I’m going to finish and pull out on time” he has even told me afterwards, he “feels he pulled out in time”. He mentions over and over he’s done having kids and has his vasectomy in 2 weeks. But keeps throwing almost subtle hints out that he wants to get me pregnant again. I know we’re both on the same page about being done, but at the same time I feel we’re both secretly wanting another and just pretend we don’t. He keeps telling me he really wants to leave it in and that I’m going to end up pregnant within these 2 weeks if he’s not careful, and when I brought home condoms; he just put them in our closet and hasn’t used them. I bring up to start wearing them and he uses the excuse it doesn’t feel the same? A few weeks back, I was talking about how I really wanted a girl and he knows I always have. But I got all boys. He came home one day and said “you want to have a girl?” With a joking smirk and I was like “God no” and he’s like “even if we go see a specialist to ensure it would be a girl” and I just laughed. Then sends me a reel about “this would be you if you had a girl” …. Then will keep up his whole “my vasectomy is coming up we have to be careful” the look in his eyes when I hold our son literally says “I want another but we need to be done” ANYWAYSSSSS I’m genuinely curious, having sex unprotected PP (I breastfeed and pumped exclusively for the first 3ish weeks and now pretty much exclusively formula feed besides trying to pump here and there”) no period yet, but DR did tell me you can ovulate at any time so of course nobody knows. Did any of you end up pregnant within that time frame? Opinions/advice? Interested to hear some feedback on this lol. It’s not the end of the world if I do end up pregnant but want to know what all of you think about any of this

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Waves

Not a rant as such but whats the point in connecting with people on the app if your going to read a message and ignore it

Its meant to be an app for making mum friends and support yet everyone ive connected with and have messaged after has pretty much read it and ignored it when ive literally said hi how are you its starting to make me want to leave the app really as feel like im not going to make any friends here

I have a stupid question…

I’ve only ever had two sexual partners. And I’ve never left a session feeling fully satisfied, and this is embarrassing to ask. Especially as a 28 year old woman, but what does it feel like to come? Am I just dumb?

Need to vent

Im 19 weeks pregnant and my bd and i broke up 2 months ago, he left me 1 moth before our wedding because “he wasn’t ready” (mind you he has 2 other children🧑🏻‍🦲) i just find out that he owns 20k on child support to his baby’s mom when he said that he was paying it. Im so overwhelmed with alot of mixed feelings. I wish he wasn’t part of my baby and i life and im really debating if i should let him be involved on my baby life

Husband refusing condoms

I came off birth control a few weeks back as I want to give my body a rest (bad side effects)
We have been using pull-out method but im just worried everytime incase he doesnt pull out quick enough.
He wont wear a condom and just laughed when I suggested it.
We do want to try for another baby in a few months just not right now!!

Making friends

Looking to make a group chat.
Would anyone be interested in joining?

Baby #2???

I’m mom to a wonderful 3 yr old girl and while she needs support in terms of speech and some social development (she’s in daycare, speech therapy and we are also awaiting autism assessment), I think I may be ready for baby #2. My plan was always to start trying again once she got more independent (this was before I started to notice delays) but now I know she’ll still need my support for longer than I expected which I’m fine with since there’s a plan in place. My main concern is my partner. He was very unhelpful during my first pregnancy and made me feel bad all through and even with my daughter I’m the one doing all the caregiving (in addition to working part-time). I feel like if I choose to do it again I’ll have to accept that I will still do it alone. But it’s my wish to have another child. Should I just focus on my daughter or go for what I want even if it would be a lot to handle alone?